Shunyata Retreat & Day Spa News Feed http://www.journeyessence.com Shunyata Retreat & Day Spa The Importance of Preventative Medicinehttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/180/The-Importance-of-Preventative-Medicine<h2>How to Avoid Cancers and Many Illnesses</h2> <p>Just had news of 2 deaths of parents and a client die of cancer. My heart breaks for the people left and the determination to give up myself and my little problems and get educating people more how to love the body, understand it&rsquo;s functionings and listen to it, connect with the soul, let go of the mind, learn to eat healthily per your ayurveda type learn how to grieve and to how to embrace death. This is all since my wake up call and watching my mother suffer for 25 years with stroke.</p> <p>It makes me go back to my blog about the truth about cancer and add to it I am not going to tell you I know all, but in the 15 years of observing and being passionate about teachings and observing clients, I have learnt a lot.</p> <p>The Truth About Cancer</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <ol> <li> <p>48% of cancers are environmental and only 5% -10% are genetic &ndash; get your home chemical free and what you put on your skin</p> </li> <li> <p>Let food be thy medicine &ndash; alkaline, address ayurvedic type, cut out sugar and add more greens and cut down on red meat</p> </li> <li> <p>Detox- liver or colon &ndash; doterra does an amazing cleanse &amp; restore that cleared my candida</p> </li> <li> <p>heal emotional wounds &ndash; 80% of illnesses are emotionally related &ndash; main cause of illnesses</p> <p>are childhood trauma, unmet sadness, grief and anger &ndash; all addressed with the journey and</p> <p>the eneagram (unconcious behaviour patterns) &ndash; get emotionally intelligent &amp; forgive</p> </li> <li> <p>Bring in plant matter with doterra high vibrancy pure essential oils - frankincense &amp; DDR prime and Lifelong vitality a must and then other ones according to the cancer</p> </li> <li> <p>I will add some other tips beyond that blog, take time to be &ndash; meditation and learn to be present out of the mind, fall in love with the body with yoga &ndash; to truly listen, do some craniosacral balancing sessions with doterra cbd oil -copaiba to truly listen, meet your inner child and develop relationship, go back to anyone in your life who you haven&rsquo;t forgiven and come to a true soul forgiveness, take stress out of your life (so easy when you understand enneagram type which creates stress), develop a relationship around death so you can surender and not fight, discover your soul, your essence your true self and stay true to it,find a way to take away money worries so you can truly concentrate on you &ndash; abundance is needed when you are ill. Sell what you need to and stop working.Make you as a no. 1 priority and understand through the enneagram what patterns have run you and caused this cancer. So many things are attributable to being ill so I have just covered some of what I have learnt, surround yourself that believe, that trust that have beaten 4th stage cancer and know that it is possible for you</p> </li> </ol> <p>For the people who are left, believe me as per many people who have had near death experiences, the light they go to is amazing. They don&rsquo;t want you to suffer, they want you to learn from them and go live totally. If you have done the soul&rsquo;s work in this lifetime, your transition is smooth and you go straight to the light, so don&rsquo;t stop waking up and discovering your true self. Use these beautiful beings as your teachers, go do what they didn&rsquo;t do and live for them and then you are doing yourself and them a huge service.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1560254400http://www.journeyessence.com/news/180/The-Importance-of-Preventative-Medicinehttp://www.journeyessence.com418The Importance of Preventative Medicinehttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/180/The-Importance-of-Preventative-Medicine The True Secret on How to Live Pain Free Naturallyhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/179/The-True-Secret-on-How-to-Live-Pain-Free-Naturally<p>My deepest wound in teenage years was my eating disorder. I had no idea at the time that I could trace it back now to the tragedy of my parent&rsquo;s divorce &ndash; I took to food as the feelings were overwhelming &ndash; I could never purge or stop eating, I loved food too much so I just ate and ate to keep the feelings of abandonment, sadness and separation down.</p> <p>Fast forward a few years with my wake up call around 30 &ndash; losing custody of my child and I had to go in and do the work. It was amazing to go back and truly face the hate I had for my body, turn it up and finally feel free &ndash; was like coming off a cocaine addiction &ndash; I didn&rsquo;t need to continue this yo yo of stuffing my face and dieting. I used colour puncture, and then went on to find dance therapy and yoga to fall totally in love with this amazing body of mine.</p> <p>This began my incredible journey into the magic of healing the body and the soul. Luckily was living in Byron Bay at the time, the mega for this work and became the workshop junkie . Tried everything you can imagine,<br /> including the most revered work I do today 30 years later which I studied in India -<a href="/treatments" data-object-ref="scm_sub_page_content:12"> Craniosacral Balancing.&nbsp; </a>I&nbsp;picked the most profound and came home to put it into my retreat 15 years ago and Shunyata was formed. So researching people, watching bodies, working on bodies and updating myself solidly by overseas jaunts &ndash; I can truly pass on what I have learnt about</p> <p><em><strong>the wisdom of this incredible body.</strong></em></p> <p>Next chapter, 5 years ago, after asking what is stopping me waking up &ndash; I&nbsp; came down with candida. Not an easy journey for a foodie, so enter Doterra Pure High Vibrancy Essential oils &ndash; took the symptoms away with wild orange and got real with eating and with the Cleanse and Restore and a few other things &ndash; became Candida free. My lesson here was physical pain and suffering, and having compassion&nbsp; for people who had to live in pain permanently, as it wasn&rsquo;t my issue in the past &ndash; most of my learnings were emotional.</p> <p><strong>The mind is full of fear, doubt and judgement, the body knows, it just wants to be listened to deeply and compassionately and this can lead us to soul&rsquo;s advancement which is cellular and true</strong>.</p> <p>How in touch are you with your body?<br /> How empowered do you feel when you get sick to heal or do you go to the medical profession?</p> <p>Don&rsquo;t get me wrong &ndash; there is a place for the medical profession, they can repair bones and so many things &ndash; but so much can be dealt with by you truly listening. Your body is a miracle &ndash; this quote by Osho</p> <p><strong><em>The body is the greatest mystery in the whole of existence. This mystery needs to be loved &ndash; it&rsquo;s mysteries and it&rsquo;s functionings need to be inquired into.&nbsp; &nbsp;OSHO</em></strong></p> <p>How do we do that? Well at Shunyata you will discover your enneagram type &ndash; either emotional, body or mind type &ndash; then we will address your relationship with your body and after doing the Journey process with the doterra high vibrancy oils that help you emotionally, you will see the wisdom that is shared, then we do a craniosacral session with these incredible&nbsp;&nbsp;oils (even have one that works like medical marijuana) , <strong>Copaiba </strong>with the high content on <strong>cannabinoid b</strong>ut totally natural, that will address the issues, and listen more deeply to it&rsquo;s functionings. The miracle of the plant knows, is done with an emotional aromatherapy energy session what is going on in the subconcious. Miracles can happen.<br /> <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/cannabis-vs-copaiba-becki-baumgartner">https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/cannabis-vs-copaiba-becki-baumgartner</a><br /> <br /> <br /> Yesterday -&nbsp; got a call from a client who couldn&#39;t walk on her foot.&nbsp; She was about to spend a lot of money<br /> on special shoes, but we went into the foot, listened deeply with the oils, and did this a few times, she has<br /> never had this pain back again.&nbsp; It happens so often and my deepest prayer is no-one has to live with<br /> permanent pain in their body, it can be cleared naturally.</p> <p>Knees that are going to be operated on with yoga exercises is another amazing shift. Phobia cures of all sorts lifted for good with NLP. Pain in body that has been there for years &ndash; finally put to rest and things that you never thought could be addressed &ndash; uniquely dealt with depending on your enneagram type, the right oil on the right place and the compassionate listening and your longing for closure. Healing takes 2 &ndash; I can&rsquo;t heal you alone, but if you and I work together we can create miracles.<br /> <br /> So the cheapest, most empowering journey you can ever take is home to the wisdom of your body and this will save you thousands in later years.&nbsp; You wake up with you every day - your body is worth listening to as it<br /> speaks wisdom and truth.</p> <p>Come to Shunyata and learn the true wisdom of this incredible body and soul and take it to help others, come for a day, or 3 days and learn emotionally and physically this tool to have for life.</p> <p>Journeyessence.com<br /> or <a href="mailto:info@journeyessence.com">info@journeyessence.com</a> or 0272 777734</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1559995200http://www.journeyessence.com/news/179/The-True-Secret-on-How-to-Live-Pain-Free-Naturallyhttp://www.journeyessence.com417The True Secret on How to Live Pain Free Naturallyhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/179/The-True-Secret-on-How-to-Live-Pain-Free-Naturally Wake up calls are the best thing your soul can go throughhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/178/Wake-up-calls-are-the-best-thing-your-soul-can-go-through<p><strong>Benefits of a Wake Up Call</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Who would think today that I could say &ndash; going rock bottom allows you to become a better person.</p> <p>My story was 10 years of deep suffering when I lost custody of my child, 30 years ago &ndash; and at the time I wouldn&rsquo;t have wished it on anyone but this is how much time I needed in my stubborn way to really wake up. I remember ending upside down in the river after the car skidded and hearing &ldquo;Wake up &ndash; I&rsquo;m going to show you this year out in style&rdquo;.</p> <p>Forward 15 years ago, finding the most amazing therapies in Byron Bay from being a workshop junkie and getting the push to come home and open a retreat, Shunyata was formed &ndash; a haven for people going through this wake up and wanting to get back to life. It&rsquo;s been amazing, 15 years of helping people just like myself, growing with them, studying non stop in so many different ways and observing so much and learning from it. I feel blessed to help people find their true selves, their higher self.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>What does this mean? Well we are all living in unconcious behaviour patterns formed in childhood&nbsp; that cause us the most suffering in the world. They are repetitive, but somehow if you want to learn, and evolve, they get better, but never do they totally leave us, they just don&rsquo;t run us so much. When we do the Journey session, you uncover these unconcious behaviours, you get it and see how it has run you and with courage and vulnerability &ndash; you meet your true self, your essence &ndash; who you truly are . It&rsquo;s magic and I could never give this work up, cause my why, my purpose is to help eleviate suffering in this world.</p> <p>Dr Gabor Mate, one of my mentors in body mind soul balance, says &ldquo;Most addictions and illnesses are caused by childhood trauma, unmet sadness, grief and anger and this is the work done here at Shunyata. We uncover a memory that is stopping you living your true potential and it allows freedom after a forgiveness process around a campfire, not from the mind but from a soul and cellular prospective.<br /> <br /> Amazing interview on the key to overcome tauma<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIMz7V6Coxc">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIMz7V6Coxc</a></p> <p>Paru has been working fulltime with this work now for 15 years and has become an expert on the Enneagram &ndash; unconcious patterns and can truly help you get to the core of what is stopping you living your true potential..<br /> The journey takes you on a guided meditation to clear out a block or trauma on a cellular level,, we do an emotional dropthrough (feeling the emotion totally)&nbsp;then we come to a forgiveness process around a campfire<br /> and cellularly this issue leaves the body.&nbsp;Mydeepest prayer is that people live a total life and that means meeting their dark to have more light and be the best version of themselves.<br /> Excellent work for depression, sexual &amp; physical&nbsp; abuse ,&nbsp;low self esteem and unworthiness, addictions, unhealthy behaviours, relationship problems, procrastination and career underperformance.<br /> The beauty here at Shunyata is it&#39;s not in a big group, it&#39;s uniquely one on one and works with YOUR SOUL<br /> your awakening which is special to you.<br /> <br /> <em><strong>Freedom is your birthright - May all beings be free and happy</strong></em></p> <p>Your deepest fear is your gift&nbsp; or your nemisis -&nbsp;&nbsp;it&rsquo;s time to face it and be free</p> <p>come for a day &ndash; Ultimate Healing Day or a 3 day retreat in gorgeous Banks Peninsular and come home to who you truly are</p> <p>journeyessence.com or tel 0272 777734 or email <a href="mailto:info@journeyessence.com">info@journeyessence.com</a></p> <p>space available now until 23 July then again from 22 September</p>1559908800http://www.journeyessence.com/news/178/Wake-up-calls-are-the-best-thing-your-soul-can-go-throughhttp://www.journeyessence.com416Wake up calls are the best thing your soul can go throughhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/178/Wake-up-calls-are-the-best-thing-your-soul-can-go-through WHY EMPATHS & HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE NEED DOTERRA ESSENTIAL OILShttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/176/WHY-EMPATHS-HIGHLY-SENSITIVE-PEOPLE-NEED-DOTERRA-ESSENTIAL-OILS<p>I have run a health and healing retreat and truly do take on the energy of others.</p> <p>After doing an extended retreat for a girl who couldn&rsquo;t lose weight 4 years ago and after being triggered by my own old eating disorder, I was flat, my candida flared up so bad that I couldn&rsquo;t face people.I went up to Nelson to a festival that my friends were running and voila, doterra again showed up in my life. This time I took the reading, got <strong>wild orange </strong>which is the oil for childlike innocence and abundance and fantastic when you are feeling flat from other peoples emotions &ndash; and instantly the heaviness lifted &ndash; I could eat again and soon after booked out the retreat for the month and bought the whole pack. Now you have to have an experience that is real right to know something for sure.4 years down the track, where would I be without <strong>doterra.</strong> Watching my clients &ndash; yes it&rsquo;s us empaths that need the oils the most. We get affected by smells, they pass the limbic system instantly and with the high vibrancy of doterra&rsquo;s oils &ndash; we heal fast. We are the one&rsquo;s that instantly love these oils and feel the purity and the effect of the body, mind and spiritual balance.</p> <p>What is an empath or HSP</p> <p><strong>Empaths</strong>&nbsp;are highly sensitive individuals, who have a keen ability to sense what people around them are thinking and feeling. Psychologists may use the term <strong>empath</strong>&nbsp;to&nbsp;<strong>describe</strong>&nbsp;a person that experiences a great deal of empathy, often to the point of taking on the pain of others at their own expense. Those of us who are more sensitive/empathic have a more sensitive&nbsp; central nervous system. And are energetically more vulnerable to environmental stressors- EMF&rsquo;s, noise, light, other people&rsquo;s emotions and physical pain.</p> <p>20% of the population fit into this category as per Judith Orloff&rsquo;s book <strong>The Empath&rsquo;s Survival Guide</strong>. But what she doesn&rsquo;t mention &ndash; is how important doterra&rsquo;s pure essential oils are for survival. That I have discovered from my own experience and on running Shunyata Retreat for 15 years and observing people through the enneagram and The Journey.</p> <p>Why does Doterra&rsquo;s pure essential Oils Work for Empaths</p> <p>They hit the limbic system really fast which most natural solutions take so much longer, and I don&rsquo;t know about you, but I have always been impatient with healing &ndash; so something that is purely natural that works really fast works for me. The limbic system is a part of the brain&nbsp;that&nbsp;controls the major functions of the body and&nbsp;has a&nbsp;huge impact on&nbsp;the emotions and emotional memory (it is also responsible for sparking nostalgia through certain scents). When the limbic system&nbsp;&nbsp;receive the oil&rsquo;s message it responds to the request and takes action, whether that be&nbsp;to heal&nbsp;the&nbsp;body, calm the mind or both. The plant know&rsquo;s.When affected by the energy of a hectic world, the idea of&nbsp;waving a healing wand&nbsp;to rebalance and recharge is a most appealing idea.&nbsp;And this is where essential oils come in. They bring the body back to balance.What I also love is the oils empower you to use your intuitive ability to know what is right for you.This is what the world lacks right now, people trusting&nbsp;&nbsp;their own body&rsquo;s amazing healing ability and the oils help you to connect with that. Sensitiviy can rock in this new paradym that is advancing in a more feminine form, this new energy that is coming to the earth and for which we can be part of.</p> <p>This new consciousness, this new reverence for the planet, this new love of heart knowing and us empaths have a huge part in this, wouldn&rsquo;t you like to be balanced in this way to help.</p> <p>So if you are in service to other people&rsquo;s healing these oils will help you beyond anything to be there and also to top up for you.</p> <p>Here is my favourites and I will stand behind the fact that the high freqency and the purity of these oils are next to none, so they are beyond therapeutic.</p> <p><a href="https://sourcetoyou.com/en">https://sourcetoyou.com/en</a></p> <p><strong>Balance </strong>&ndash; The Grounding Oil &ndash; spruce, Ho wood Frankincense, Blue Tansy, Blue Chamomile and Osmanthus</p> <p>My mother was bipolar and I am not but I defintely had the mood swings and this oil on the soles of the feet daily truly helps me keep my emotions in&nbsp; balance.</p> <p><strong>On Guard </strong>&ndash; The Protective Blend -Wild Orange, Clove, Cinnamon, Eucalptus &amp; Rosemary</p> <p>Say no more, not only does it protect you from nasties, but builds up the immune and protects you from energy zappers. &nbsp;Can help strengthen your energetic field to create stronger resilience,&nbsp;<a href="https://sensitivesoulscoach.com/traits-of-a-highly-sensitive-person/" target="_blank">stronger boundaries</a>.&nbsp;</p> <p><strong><strong>O</strong></strong><strong><a href="https://www.mydoterra.com/eileenburnsuk/#/" target="_blank"><strong>regano</strong></a></strong><strong><strong>&nbsp;&ndash;</strong></strong>Very powerful for boundaries can help stop parasitic energy.&nbsp; Can assist with healthy digestion and supports healthy respiratory function. May help support a healthy immune system. Useful as a powerful cleansing and purifying agent. It was one of the best for saying goodbye to candida.</p> <p><strong><a href="https://www.mydoterra.com/eileenburnsuk/#/" target="_blank"><strong>Serenity Restful Blend</strong></a></strong><strong><strong>&nbsp; </strong></strong><strong><strong>or Lavender Peace -</strong></strong><strong>Tranquility</strong> Lavender, Cedarwood, Ho Wood, Ylang Ylang, Marjoram, Roman Chamomile, Vetiver, Vanilla &amp; Sandalwood<strong>&ndash;&nbsp;</strong>can be a useful aid for those struggling with anxiety, stress, over thinking. It also can help you connect more with the self, connect with your own inner calm. So great aid for those of you who struggle to meditate, be still. I love it for my perfectionism &ndash; a chill pill. The sleep fantastic.</p> <p><a href="https://www.mydoterra.com/eileenburnsuk/#/" target="_blank"><strong><strong>Whisper Blend For Women</strong></strong>&nbsp;</a>&ndash; femininity jasmine, ylang ylang , vanilla, cinnamon and cocoa.&nbsp; Useful to support any unresolved issues you may have with your femininity, mother, grandmother or other close women figure in your life. Useful at helping ease unreleased anger. Us women need to own our feminine core in the new found age of the feminine. This has been my work for over 20 years &ndash; thank you David Deida. The qualities of the feminine are trust, patience, surrender, being instead of doing &amp; receptivity.</p> <p>&nbsp;P<strong><a href="https://www.mydoterra.com/eileenburnsuk/#/" target="_blank"><strong>urify &ndash;</strong></a></strong>Protects against environmental threats such as EMF&rsquo;s and toxins. Can help clear the air and negative, stagnant energy in your home. Like doing a sage clearing &ndash; so important here at Shunyata with all the energies and healing work I do.<br /> <br /> To get these oils at a wholesale price of 25% discount - you just need to pay<br /> $40 &nbsp;or buy a starter kit with no fee&nbsp; and saving $150 and additional 20% off for May Home Essentials now $292 and then you have your own wholesale account.<br /> mydoterra.com/shunyata<br /> <br /> like&nbsp; fb my page<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/paruclarke03/">https://www.facebook.com/paruclarke03/</a><br /> <br /> I would be honoured to answer your questions and help you on your journey - remember it is a true gift if we empower ourselves and the world needs our sensitvity right now.&nbsp; If you know someone who fits this category please share this cause empowerment is so important in healing.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1556971200http://www.journeyessence.com/news/176/WHY-EMPATHS-HIGHLY-SENSITIVE-PEOPLE-NEED-DOTERRA-ESSENTIAL-OILShttp://www.journeyessence.com414WHY EMPATHS & HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE NEED DOTERRA ESSENTIAL OILShttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/176/WHY-EMPATHS-HIGHLY-SENSITIVE-PEOPLE-NEED-DOTERRA-ESSENTIAL-OILS How to Save Your Marriagehttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/174/How-to-Save-Your-Marriage<p><em><strong>At Shunyata<br /> You will come back to the essence of who you truly are and become<br /> The Lover you have always longed for!</strong></em><br /> <br /> I deeply&nbsp; believe we all crave the deepest forms of romantic and sexual intimacy. We want to experience a love that is pure and unconditional. We want to truly&nbsp; worship those we love and we want to be worshipped in return. I believe we innately want to be able to share what is true in our hearts and be met with compassion and understanding, without being made wrong or told we need to change.&nbsp; I believe we all want an amazing sex life that blows us apart and makes us want to be alive.</p> <p>If your relationship isn&rsquo;t working &ndash; then life isn&rsquo;t working. We all have heard of the heartache and the turmoil involved in marriage breakups, I know myself having been through the family law court and losing custody of my child.<br /> <br /> <strong>ASK YOURSELF</strong><br /> <br /> Has the spark gone?<br /> Are you at rock bottom?<br /> Does one of you want to make it work and not the other?<br /> Have you tried counselling and still not moving forward?<br /> Do you both want it to work and rekindle that love?<br /> Do you truly love your partner but can&#39;t seem to make it work?</p> <p>For 14 years Paru has&nbsp;&nbsp;worked with couples&nbsp; bridging&nbsp;&nbsp;the gap with qualities of the feminine and&nbsp; masculine to create intimacy, the dance between consciousness and love..&nbsp; We bring back the <strong>masculine</strong> of <em>Presence, Claim &amp; Penetration&nbsp;</em>and the<strong> feminine</strong> of<em> invitation, surrender &amp; expression of being</em></p> <p>A&nbsp;<strong>conscious relationship</strong>&nbsp;is a romantic liaison where both people feel dedicated to a sense of commitment towards growth .Most relationships are run from unconscious patterns, based on romantic pursuits, full of fear and seeking to please the other and asking the other unconsciously to provide happiness. &nbsp;The normal scenario when the honeymoon is over and the relationship goes downhill. When you become conscious you become aware of habitual, addictive, thinking and ego patterning &nbsp;and make a decision&nbsp; to take responsibility and not blame the other.</p> <p>We work with <a href="https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/">the enneagram</a> &ndash; unconscious patterns that cause the most suffering to self &amp; others<br /> We work with<a href="https://www.thejourney.com/"> The Journey method </a>&ndash; the most amazing guided meditation to take you back to a block or childhood trauma that is stopping you move forward now in life<br /> We counsel one on one and together&ndash; deeply using these tools to help you open up to love again<br /> We provide tools to respark the love again what attracted you in the first place<br /> We move beyond romantic love to a true sense of trust again and openess with each other<br /> We bring the intimacy back and refind truth<br /> We work with the highest frequency pure essential oils &ndash; doterra to help you open to a deeper love and reclaim the masculine and feminine for intimacy<br /> We provide amazing delicious, decadent opening tantric practices to bring love alive again<br /> We finish with a 3 course romantic dinner that you will treasure</p> <p><em><strong>TESTIMONIALS FROM CLIENTS</strong></em></p> <p><strong><a href="https://www.tripadvisor.co.nz/ShowUserReviews-g255118-d3251599-r493612756-Shunyata_Health_Retreat_Day_Spa-Christchurch_Canterbury_Region_South_Island.html">Healing of the soul</a></strong></p> <p>Shunyata is one of the greatest experiences i have ever had. Not just because of the amazing food Paru made, or because of the absolutely amazing scenery from my bedroom window.. but because of the fact that going to Shunyata has changed everything.. in an amazing way. Straight off the plane Paru&#39;s energy blew us away and we were so comfortable from then on. Her love and energy is given in everything and you truley feel that. I can honestly say after the most rough year of our relationship, Paru has helped my partner and i fall in love all over again. I was sad to leave.. but if you are reading this then please believe me when i say this is a healing experience you will not forget.&nbsp;<br /> <br /> Thank you Paru, we are so grateful to have met you!!! Aroha nui</p> <p><strong><a href="https://www.tripadvisor.co.nz/ShowUserReviews-g255118-d3251599-r492862058-Shunyata_Health_Retreat_Day_Spa-Christchurch_Canterbury_Region_South_Island.html">SoulfulL bliss &amp; healing</a></strong></p> <p>Kia ora koutou katoa, Well where start,<br /> <br /> For starters i am a typical egotistic male and i thought this would of been the last place on earth i would of ended up being a mans Man and all!!<br /> But in desperate times men look for help in strange places and in this place my partner in crime and i have found the peace deserved with calm souls.We thank you paru for your beautiful teachings awesomely delicious food and warming hospitality with the morning yoga and evening meditation by a warm fire truly an experience needed by most would recommend this to anyone problems or not well worth it.<br /> we arrived with no expectations and a open mind &amp; heart,in order to get out what you want to find and let go of you,yourself have to ask the questions do i really want to do this? Or is it another poor excuse im giving myself to say NO I&#39;ve tried that it doesn&#39;t work! because thats what I&#39;ve always told myself and facing those very demons that I have been fighting and feeding my hole life i finally had the chance to face on level ground now these demons have no shadows to hide in,I am on track with me, with my wife and my children,thanks again Paru for giving me the tools to bring me to the present moment.<br /> <br /> Nga mihi arohanui.</p> <p><em><strong>ABOUT PARU</strong></em></p> <p>Her pattern was tragic romantic &ndash; so she has taken out the tragedy and turned it into a service to a higher loving for all. Paru first of all studied with&nbsp;<a href="http://www.deida.info/">David Deida&nbsp;</a>and&nbsp;his partner, acknowledged as one of the most insightful and provocative spiritual teachers of our time in the area of sacred intimacy.&nbsp; &nbsp;She has explored masculine and feminine energies for 30 years. She has done many workshops on tantra and sexual healing &nbsp;She has over 15 years of healing sexual blocks with the journey method &amp;&nbsp;cranio sacral and &nbsp;she is deeply passionate in bringing couples to a place of deeper, unconditional&nbsp;love in relationship. She specialises in sexual abuse with the journeymethod and helps people open after shutting down in intimacy. Her deepest passion is to serve a healthy healing love and many of her clients have become dear friends today.<br /> <br /> saveyourmarriage#relationshipretreatnz#relationshipcounsellingnz#bestretreatforrelationshipnz#<br /> &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;Come and retreat at beautiful Diamond Harbour for 3 or 5 days</p> <p><a href="https://www.journeyessence.com/couples-counselling/relationship-coach">https://www.journeyessence.com/couples-counselling/relationship-coach</a></p> <p><br /> &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1553166000http://www.journeyessence.com/news/174/How-to-Save-Your-Marriagehttp://www.journeyessence.com410How to Save Your Marriagehttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/174/How-to-Save-Your-Marriage Why Chose Shunyatahttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/172/Why-Chose-Shunyata<p>1. Individual very one on one &ndash; let&rsquo;s face it we are all unique and each person&rsquo;s issue is different. Each person has a pattern of unconcious behaviour running them and fits into a different ayurveda prakruti &ndash; type.</p> <p>2. Whatever is happening with your life right now &ndash; is somehow a wake up call for you to go deeper, to learn what your soul wants for you.&nbsp; How are you out of balance?&nbsp; What is<br /> it costing you..&nbsp; Are you serious about change right now?</p> <p>3. Paru is an earth mother, grounded, calls herself spiritual but not airy fairy. Real life,<br /> real tools, real healing.&nbsp; She is a change agent.</p> <p>4. Beautiful views, comfortable surroundings conjusive to healing. Not 5 star but nourishing and healing.</p> <p>5. Whatever is going on with you &ndash; we get to the core. Whether is be a physical, emotional or a block of some sort &ndash; this is the fastest most effective form of healing getting straight to the issue.</p> <p>6. Love, sometimes tough love, kindness, nourishment and support is what you need for healing. You are so special and that is how you feel here.</p> <p>7. Over 30 years of being a workshop junkie and upgrading herself every year &ndash; allows Paru to get to the core of whatever issue is blocking you from truly living your potential.</p> <p>8. Life is hard, but there are natural solutions and if you want to go the natural way then Shunyata is for you.</p> <p>9. Specialising in shutdown, abuse being physical, emotional or sexual, depression, anxiety and relationships.<br /> <br /> 10.&nbsp; Deal with the being of the person and bring back to wholeness body, mind and soul.</p> <p>11. Are you sick of mediocrity in life and want to live a full life, then Shunyata is for you.<br /> <br /> 12.&nbsp; The power of forgiveness en with the journeymethod and it&#39;s not just words, it&#39;s an energy that is powerful- it will shift the energy in your life to create magic<br /> <br /> IF YOU HAVE AN ILLNESS - WATCH THE DOCUMENTARY HEAL ON NETFLIX<br /> You will find most of these practices used here at Shunyata<br /> <br /> email<strong> <a href="mailto:info@journeyessence.com">info@journeyessence.com</a> or tel 03 3294773 or 0272 777734</strong><br /> <br /> &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1552993200http://www.journeyessence.com/news/172/Why-Chose-Shunyatahttp://www.journeyessence.com407Why Chose Shunyatahttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/172/Why-Chose-Shunyata What is the true meaning of Wellnesshttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/167/What-is-the-true-meaning-of-Wellness<h3><strong>Wellness in New Zealand</strong></h3> &nbsp; <p>GOOGLES DEFINITION</p> <p>the state of being in good health, especially as an actively pursued goal.</p> <p>PARU&rsquo;S DEFINITION</p> <p>The balance of emotional, physical, spiritual and whole health, not just addressing food, but the pyramid of what doterra says and then add to it Meeting unmet emotions and bringing awareness to unconcious behaviours (enneagram), and coming to a true forgiveness process of hurts and shutdown.</p> <p><strong>doTterra&rsquo;s Pyramid of Wellness</strong></p> <p>Eating right<br /> Exercise<br /> Rest (Being) &amp; Managing Stress<br /> Reducing Toxic Load<br /> Informed Self Care and Self Care<br /> Proactive Medical Care</p> <p><em><strong>Wellness promotes wholeness of Being</strong></em></p> <p>then to be totally free in your emotions by feeling them organically especially unmet anger, sadness and grief and clearing out childhood trauma, the main cause of addictions and disease today as per<strong> Gabor Matte</strong><br /> Moving from an unconcious state of being (the enneagram patterns) to a higher self &ndash; the essence of who you truly are.<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHGXNbbzw9g">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHGXNbbzw9g&nbsp;</a> &nbsp;DR GABOR MATE ON THE IMPORTANCE OF BODY MIND HEALTH &amp; PATTERNS OF UNCONCIOUS BEHAVIOUR<br /> THAT CAUSE DISEASE AND ADDICTION</p> <p><strong>About Paru</strong></p> <p>Paru has been instrumental in bringing thejourneymethod to New Zealand 15 years ago&nbsp;working for over 14&nbsp;years at Shunyata Retreat and Day spa getting the core of people&rsquo;s issues with thejourneymethod, ayurveda,&nbsp;yoga, meditation and doterra&rsquo;s pure CPTG high vibrancy oils.People who have been in counselling for years &ndash; find an end to so many issues with The Journey.</p> <p><em><strong>anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, chronic anger and rage, physical illnesses, addictions and unhealthy behaviours, sexual or physical abuse, relationship problems and procrastination and career underperformance.</strong></em></p> <p>We don&rsquo;t work with the mind, we work with the body and soul and the being. I feel so blessed, humbled and truly grateful to help eleviate suffering in this world.</p> <p><strong>MAY ALL BEINGS BE FREE AND HAPPY</strong></p> <p>Book your Ultimate Healing Day or 3 Day Ultimate Bliss Retreat today or contact Paru on how to<br /> get these amazing high vibrancy oils for emotional health.</p> <p><strong>Tel or txt&nbsp; 0272 777734 or email info@journeyessence.com</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1547722800http://www.journeyessence.com/news/167/What-is-the-true-meaning-of-Wellnesshttp://www.journeyessence.com395What is the true meaning of Wellnesshttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/167/What-is-the-true-meaning-of-Wellness Couples Counselling in NZ Retreat Formathttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/166/Couples-Counselling-in-NZ-Retreat-Format<h2>Couples counselling/Relationship coach</h2> <em>Have you just got married and want to start this relationship healthily with freedom and unconditional love?</em><br /> <em>Has your relationship lost it&#39;s spark?<br /> Have you shutdown on each other and feel a deadness?<br /> Have you got mistrust and jealousy issues affecting your relationship?<br /> Are you carrying hurts that cannot allow your heart to flower?<br /> Are you being really honest with yourself and your partner in this relationship?<br /> Have you lost intimacy?<br /> Have you dreamed of living a more tantric &nbsp;and conscious relationship?<br /> Do you dream of finding the love and passion again?<br /> Are you sick and tired of the same stuff coming up relationship after relationship?</em><br /> <br /> Imagine time out for the 2 of you, catching up, eating beautiful prepared food looking<br /> out over the ocean, reaching a depth of intimacy that you never imagined.&nbsp; Imagine not<br /> carrying those hurts anymore and being truly open and honest with each other.&nbsp; Imagine<br /> speaking to each other, My beloved I feel your fear........ Sitting together in a 3 course romantic dinner in sheer bliss, then after laughing together from an amazing video on true love,<br /> retiring into the gorgeous hydrotherpy bath.&nbsp; Your relationship deserves this..........<br /> <br /> <strong>BEST COUPLES RETREAT NZ</strong><br /> A&nbsp;<strong>conscious relationship</strong>&nbsp;is a romantic liaison where both people feel dedicated to a sense of commitment towards growth.Most relationships are run from unconcious patterns, based on romantic pursuits, full of fear and seeking to please the other and asking the other unconciously to provide happiness. &nbsp;The normal scenario when the honeymoon is over and the relationship goes downhill. When you become concious you become aware of habitual, addictive, thinking and ego patterning &nbsp;and make a decision&nbsp; to take responsibility and not blame the other. <h3>Did you love <strong>Married at First Sight</strong>, would you love to understand your pattern of why you sabotage relationshipsm - the enneagram work addresses this.</h3> <br /> Life&#39;s stresses of making money, raising your children kills chemistry between couples. Everyone is living in the masculine domain of life of achievement &nbsp;and no wonder relationships are failing. &nbsp;Come and find out what the true secrets are for being sexy for your man or woman on a deeper and more sustaining level <h3><strong>BEST ROMANTIC NZ GETTAWAY</strong></h3> <h3>Relationships&nbsp;can break down&nbsp;&nbsp;when the men will leave from fear but won&#39;t admit their fear and the woman will stay longing for something to change but is too scared to leave the relationship because she is addicted to love even if it&#39;s an untrue love. &nbsp;Hence no-one is serving the other to rise in love and not fall. &nbsp;There is so much more beyond the romantic love and at Shunyata we help you discover this.<br /> <br /> Imagine a relationship where in her open heart and his consiciousness &nbsp;all her jealousy, anger, pain, hurt and sadness get burnt &nbsp;and a woman brings him present by cultivating his masculine&nbsp;not emasculating him&nbsp;with her incredible intuition and energy and feeling pleasure. Imagine him living his true masculine force, being present, trustable and in truth and her living her powerful feminine force with an open heart, showing him when is off and opening in pure devotion when he is on. &nbsp;&nbsp;When&nbsp;&nbsp;these two energies meet, you get a real sense of shiva and shakti dancing and the world truly needs this love.<br /> <br /> This is my deepest prayer for all to live this higher love and if you truly want to stop the old patterning - it is available to you right now. &nbsp;</h3> <h3><strong>&nbsp;Best Relationship Counselling in New Zealand</strong></h3> You know you want to work it out so you&#39;ve come to the right place otherwise you&#39;ll just carry<br /> the baggage to the next relationship. &nbsp;Give your relationship that break to truly come home<br /> and start a new way of loving. <h3><strong>RELATIONSHIP RETREAT</strong></h3> <br /> Spend a&nbsp;<strong>romantic&nbsp;weekend getaway</strong>&nbsp;or a more deeper 5 days that you will&nbsp;never forget!&nbsp; When it comes to a couples retreat Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa will guarantee a true heart opening.&nbsp;Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa is the place to come and be nurtured in a safe, healing and neutral environment.&nbsp;The work is first done on your own with The Journey and enneagram (ego patterns) and then when you have resolved your own patterns individually we then&nbsp;counsel from this place.<br /> <br /> We have recently added some amazing doterra &nbsp;blends of oils and of course pure cacao&nbsp;chocolates that will send you wild. &nbsp;So it&#39;s decadence, delightful and delicious to<br /> open in this love - The 3 course romantic dinner usually is the highlight of the retreat served<br /> on the deck overlooking the ocean.<br /> <br /> WHY PARU<br /> <br /> Paru first of all studied with&nbsp;<a href="http://www.deida.info/">David Deida&nbsp;</a>and&nbsp;his partner, acknowledged as one of the most insightful and provocative spiritual teachers of our time in the area of sacred intimacy. She has done many workshops on tantra and sexual healing &nbsp;She has over 15 years of healing sexual blocks with cranio sacral and &nbsp;she is deeply passionate in bringing couples to a place of deeper, unconditional&nbsp;love in relationship.<br /> <br /> <strong><em>WHEN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOOD OUR LIFE IS GOOD</em></strong>1546945200http://www.journeyessence.com/news/166/Couples-Counselling-in-NZ-Retreat-Formathttp://www.journeyessence.com394Couples Counselling in NZ Retreat Formathttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/166/Couples-Counselling-in-NZ-Retreat-Format Emotional Intelligence with The Journey and Doterra essential oils 12 Feb Christchurchhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/163/Emotional-Intelligence-with-The-Journey-and-Doterra-essential-oils-12-Feb-Christchurch<p>80 % of our illnesses and addictions are caused by emotional imblances -<br /> Most of illnesses and addictions are caused by childhood trauma, unmet sadness, grief and anger</p> <p>Our emotions affect our behaviours, our responses, our choices and even our perceptions.emotions are a connection point with others, nature, humans and ourselves. But to truly feel takes a lot of courage and you have to be brave. No- one really taught us at school how to be healthily with our emtions</p> <p>We are either dramatising them, running from them, numbing them out or agressing and dumping them. Most people are escaping from them, cause if they feel the highest joys, then they must be feeling the deepest of pain. Feel the good and run from the bad but unless we meet the dark side we will never be authentically in the light.</p> <p>Some of us lose ourselves or wallow in our emotions, with a story that can&rsquo;t let go and it takes a compassionate witness to observe the ever changing world of emotions.Someone who feels safe to feel.</p> <p>If we ttuly feel our emotions fully, they can pass through the body quickly and you will feel refreshed, cleared out and released. But sometimes we go over and over the story from the head and this causes suffering. We keep the problem in place with the story. We can also manipulate the emotions</p> <p>Some feel great and some feel truly uncomfortable like weakness, vulnerability, unworthiness, unloveability, insecurity, shame, humiliation and fear. We judge them good and bad.</p> <p>How we feel them can be a game of inflation like bullying, blame and domination<br /> Rigidity &ndash; holding onto them by hardening, shutting down and denial and putting a wall around heart.<br /> Deflation &ndash; hiding out, introversion, collapse, narcotising, and passive resistence.</p> <p>All of these behaviours can be associated with depression.</p> <p>If we open into the core of any emotion and burn through it, we will open to peace, our source, our essence of our being. Even school kids can do it. Not catharting into pillows , this is different = Opening silently into stillness and totally feeling the feeling, the experience is liberating and lasting.</p> <p>When we truly are there we come out of the head and into the heart.&nbsp; We are in bliss cause<br /> we reach the essence of our being.<br /> <br /> Paru will be holding a free evening&nbsp; on how to deal with emotions healthily with the journey and doterra high vibration essential oils.<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/290581614929466/">https://www.facebook.com/events/290581614929466/</a></p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1545908400http://www.journeyessence.com/news/163/Emotional-Intelligence-with-The-Journey-and-Doterra-essential-oils-12-Feb-Christchurchhttp://www.journeyessence.com391Emotional Intelligence with The Journey and Doterra essential oils 12 Feb Christchurchhttp://www.journeyessence.com/news/163/Emotional-Intelligence-with-The-Journey-and-Doterra-essential-oils-12-Feb-Christchurch