Shunyata Retreat & Day Spa News Feed Shunyata Retreat & Day Spa The True Reason why People Don't Heal<h3><strong>WHY SOME PEOPLE DON&#39;T HEAL &ndash;<br /> HOW CHILDHOOD TRAUMA CAN BE TRANSFORMED THERE IS HOPE</strong></h3> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>For 13 years now Paru has been observing patterns in people&#39;s healing and soon will release abook. But recently came across some amazing insight from a doctor that confirms her findings.</p> <p>The words healing and health find their root in the Anglo-Saxon word for&nbsp;<em>wholeness</em>&mdash;no accident, since the source of much illness is precisely the loss of wholeness induced by trauma, whether subtle or overt. That loss, too, is the source of the distress that many of seek so fervently to escape by the many seductions Western culture offers to the emotionally and spiritually bereft. As the spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle has written,<em>The emotional patterns we learn as small children, he says, live on in the cells of our minds and come back to us as adults.</em></p> <p>Basically, all emotions are modifications of one primordial, undifferentiated emotion that has its origin in the loss of awareness of who you are beyond the name and form. You are running an unconscious pattern, lower self and until you meet your higher self, essence or source, healing doesn&#39;t always happen. It&#39;s truly hard to establish what emotions you are repressing, but &ldquo;Fear&rdquo; comes close, but apart from a continuous sense of threat, it also includes a deep sense of abandonment and incompleteness. It may be best to use a term that is as undifferentiated is the basic emotion and simply call it &ldquo;pain.&rdquo;One of the main tasks of the mind is to fight or remove that emotional pain, which is one of the reasons for its incessant activity, but all it can ever achieve is to cover it up temporarily.Trauma in childhood causes disconnect from your body and doesn&#39;t allow you&nbsp;to be present.</p> <p>Carolyn Myss says that people don&#39;theal because they keep the consciousness of the illness by repeating the illness. When we don&#39;t want to feel the deep sadness, grief or anger, we go into our heads and make a story of it, cause it&#39;s safer. Brandon Bays healed a tumour when she came to a true forgiveness, felt the emotions that hadn&#39;t really been felt and moved on beyond acceptance.</p> <p>Facts proven by Dr Gabor Mate who had many years experience in the field of addiction and the medical field in pallative care&nbsp;before people died, observed these facts.</p> <p><em>&#39;People who have a chronic illness of any kind &mdash; cancer, multiple sclerosis, rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, inflammatory bowel disease, chronic neurological and skin disorders &mdash; often fit certain personality profiles. For example, they tend to pay a lot more attention to the needs of others than to their own. They get caught up in their job or their role as a caregiver rather than looking after themselves. They also tend to suppress the so-called negative emotions, such as sadness and anger. They try not to acknowledge these emotions even to themselves. And, finally, they tend to think they are responsible for how other people feel and to be terrified of disappointing others who are important to them. Repressed anger is a learned response in childhood to maintain relationship with parents and affects the immune system and can also cause autoimmune disorders.</em></p> <p><em>Is there a connection between the ability to express emotions and Alzheimer&rsquo;s disease</em></p> <p><em>&ldquo; &nbsp;Mr. Reagan&rsquo;s emotional poverty and his need to cocoon himself against reality can be understood as the responses of a sensitive child to the trauma of living with an alcoholic, unreliable father and an emotionally absent mother. At an early age, he distanced himself from the vulnerability of genuine emotion by hiding behind sentiment and learned to maintain a surface tranquillity by failing to recognize his own emotional pain or that of others.&nbsp; &ldquo;</em></p> <p><em>If my relationship with my parents demands that I become their caregiver because they&rsquo;re alcoholics, then I&rsquo;ll likely become a chronic caregiver and will ignore my own needs. The children of alcoholics suffer a lot from anxiety, depression, and physical illness because of how they cope. But they had no choice but to cope that way.</em></p> <p><em>In the attachment relationship we also learn who we are: Are we good? Are we bad? Are we acceptable? Are we worthwhile? All of this depends not on what the parent&nbsp;thinks&nbsp;of us but on how the parent unconsciously&nbsp;acts&nbsp;toward us. If my parents enjoy me, then I&rsquo;ll have good self-esteem. If my parents are so stressed and worried and depressed that they can&rsquo;t enjoy me, even if they love me, then I will have low self-esteem, because children invariably make everything about themselves&#39;.</em></p> <p>This is so true in the 13 years of running Shunyata and in my own life. I was desperately seeking the approval of my alcoholic father until the age of 40, so I succeeded in everything for him, thought I was ok in society because I was successful, became a workaholic and lost custody of my son.These are rash statements but have proved themselves time and time again in the 13 years of healing at Shunyata. The most common type of person is that that judges or represses anger and ends up with depression or can end up with cancer. A learnt belief from childhood.The types that have deep unmet grief or sadness, often won&#39;t admit they feel it because of pride, and end up trying to earn love by giving and caring.&nbsp; &nbsp;But then 90% of the lies are the lies we tell ourselves owing to unconcious behaviours like pride which I have seen a lot in myself and others who come to the retreat.&nbsp; Pride, I believe, not reaching out for help, is one of the reasons so many people are suiciding these days.</p> <p>Half way through running this retreat, I was in this category myself, and asked for what was stopping me from waking up, 2 weeks later I got candida, and thanks to doterra essential oils &ndash; went deeper into the repression of saying no, strong enough to clients. Now this was a hidden through pride and something I wouldn&#39;t admit to as I thought I had strong boundaries. I was the wounded healer, a lot of my self worth was attached to helping people and I thought I had done all the work on this.I was very blessed in many ways though to receive a legacy from my own mother, the martyr who went on to having 25 years of strokes from the age of 50, not to be a superwoman &ndash; it doesn&#39;t pay off. Pride stops us from really owning our pain. Myself,until 30 didn&#39;t even think there was anything wrong with me because my life was successful.My wake up call, took me deeper into the truth of the trauma of growing up with an alcoholic father who was emotionally unavailable and a tragic dramatic mother who was always too busy. I had to truly own&nbsp;the effect it had on my early life and own the suffering, anger and victim I was carrying inside.</p> <p>After all this research done by Dr Gabor Mate, who I have followed in the field of addiction and was so full of truth, I feel so blessed and priveleged to know that people, including myself,&nbsp; can raise their consciousness and heal. They can meet their higher selves and break these unconcious patterns with awareness and thejourneymethod. This is what we do here at Shunyata and sometimes these patterns are not in this life but in a past life so past life regression is needed&nbsp; My amazing one was on anger that I had carried through from a past life.. But there is hope and if you know of anyone who fits this common thread and can&#39;t shift an illness &ndash; I feel blessed to hold their hands and bring them home to their true selves.</p> <p>In the book &ldquo;Dying to be me&rdquo; Anita Moorjani, proves it. When she has a miracoulus healing and comes home to herself. I have heard it in Satsangs with Mooji, when people finally meet their true selves, diseases like liymes disease heals. Time and time again this consciousness truly works. Yes it is also important to remove sugar from our diets, alkaline ,change our way of living,slow down, establish our ayurveda type for body mind soul balance, repair our gut and therefore our immune system ,do a detox ,&nbsp;meditate and exercise and take doterra essential oils to help this -but clearing the trauma, from childhood and breaking the unconscious patterns of behaviour and coming back to our trueselves with thejourneymethod is crucial in healing.</p> <p>This is where the doterra oils come in. They help people to forgive, to let go of repressed sadness and anger and truly come to their essence.When we are in our true selves magic happens. When I finally forgave my ex husband for terrorising me for 10 years and taking custody of my child, I exited the victim mode and magic started to happen in my life, hence why I came home to do thejourneymethod in my own country.</p> <p>Hopefully you don&#39;t wait for an illness or your wake up call to start feeling your feelings like I did.<br /> Hopefully some of this article rings truth in you and you finally put yourself first in self care, not<br /> taught by this society and do this for yourself.So whether you are not healing from an illness, an anxiety or depression that&nbsp; can&#39;t seem to move, or a heavyness you carry on your chest from a deep hurt and sadness you are not aware of, &ndash; this work that I feel so humbled to do here at Shunyata really works. Look forward to meeting you and your highest self.<em><strong> Namaste.</strong></em><br /> <br /> email <a href=""></a> or tel 03 3294773 or txt 0272 777734 I would be<br /> honoured to help you come home to your true self</p> <p><br /> &nbsp;</p>1507892400 True Reason why People Don't Heal The Truth About Cancer Retreat in New Zealand<h2><em>Cancer Retreat in New Zealand</em></h2> <br /> The new heal documentary about to be released in October 2017 states<br /> &quot;<br /> &quot;Most healings are mental, emotional and the spiritual component&quot; <p>Don&#39;t rush &ndash; you have time. Don&#39;t let fear take over. Being empowered to heal your own body naturally is amazing. Paru has done all the research, been their herself and feels after 12&nbsp;years of deep study of her client running a healthy and healing retreat,she can help you to address your issue individually with ayurveda, doterra pure cptg essential oils, the journeymethod and<br /> past life regression and incredible body work&nbsp;and set you on the path to wellness. We work together and all healings happen when you are empowered.<br /> <br /> <a href=""></a></p> <h3><strong>Healing Cancer Naturally NZ</strong></h3> <p>In the recent amazing truth about cancer that is spreading like fire amongst us all<br /> 48% of cancers are enviromental<br /> 18% infection<br /> 23% obesity<br /> 5-10% genetic</p> <h3><strong>Natural &amp; alternative healing for cancer NZ</strong></h3> <p><br /> As per a doctors recommendation who healed her own cancer:<br /> <br /> 1. First is <strong>&ldquo;Let food be thy medicine</strong>&rdquo; - find out your ayurveda type and eat what will work<br /> uniquely for you. Learn to alkalise the body and do smoothies and learn to make delicious sugar free treats.<br /> <br /> 2. <strong>Detox</strong> &ndash; here at Shunyata we do panchakarma &nbsp;ayurveda &nbsp;liver and colon cleanse. This is the most ancient form of healing from India and truly works. If you want to know more about other detoxing like coffee enemas etc we can also cover than. &nbsp;Or if you can&#39;t come on retreat you can start on the cleanse and restore pack with doterra.<br /> <a href=""></a><br /> 3. <strong>Balance energy</strong> with yoga, chi machine, tachyon cocoon, ozone saunas, daily body work etc, aromatouch massage, craniosacral balancing for pain and reflexology with doTERRA oils.<br /> <br /> 4. <strong>Heal emotional wounds</strong> with the journey method &nbsp;and past life regression and the enneagram (ego patterns) and come to a place of forgiveness and let go of the past.<br /> <br /> 5. Next bring in plant matter with d<strong>oTERRA amazing essential oils </strong>like frankincense and on guard immune support. Do a zyto reading and see what is going on emotionally and physically uniquely in your body.<br /> <br /> She also talks about biological dentistry &ndash; getting rid of amalgams etc.<br /> <br /> The importance of getting rid of sugar which lowers the body&#39;s immunity, using many different<br /> oils for stress and taking home tools to prevent future illness.<br /> <br /> Shunyata has been open for 10 years now. Paru initially started with the emotionally healing bringing Brandon Bays to New Zealand with the journey and each year has been updating with the most advanced state of the art natural healing solutions.But here each person is individual, no shoe fits all and this is the amazing part. The energy here is so powerful that often babies are conceived, twins last week with a group of helpers from France.<br /> <br /> Come and be nurtured, empowered and loved back to health or watch the truth about cancer<br /> <br /> <a href=""></a><br /> <br /> call now 03 3294773 and see if Shunyata is right for you or email <a href=""></a><br /> or ask Paru how you can get these amazing oils<br /><br /> <br /> &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1506250800 Truth About Cancer Retreat in New Zealand Best Essential Oil Specials on Offer in September 2017<h3>How Doterra Can Make your Life Easy</h3> <br /> Is it not possible for you to make it on retreat right now? &nbsp;<br /> Every month we have some special and this month it&#39;s again great and you can go in the draw to win a free digestzen also. &nbsp;I am writing this from the doterra conference in USA right now.<br /> It is over 2 years ago that I discovered these amazing gifts of the earth - doterra and every<br /> day I ask myself, how did I get through life without them. &nbsp;If I have a stomach upset, little<br /> sign of flu coming on, headache or sore shoulders or back,not to mention monthly emotional upsets - there is a natural based plant medicine to deal with it really quickly - 50-70times more powerful than herbs and super fast acting.<br /> <br /> I watch day after day people addicted to drugs, my mother had a stroke at 50 and I am 60 this<br /> year and full of health. &nbsp;Antibiotics are losing their power and causing candida and people are stressed and not coping. &nbsp;You need help in your own home and these oils do this. &nbsp;Don&#39;t you want to be empowered to take care of your own health. &nbsp;It is my why for doterra - to help people empower themselves to take care &nbsp;of themselves and their family naturally and for people who know me - I am deeply into integrity.<br /> <br /> Doterra has taken essential oils to a whole new paradym that you never could imagine.<br /> Their oils are so pure, you can injest them, put them in a difuser or smell them and they hit the limbic system fast.<br /> <br /> Well this month and the month of September.. &nbsp;You can get these products at wholesale prices 25% off - and if you buy the home essentials kit (basic start kit) $330 you will get a free Manuka Oil and Litsea oil. &nbsp;We all know the benefits of manuka honey that people overseas are fighting for, so the oil is even more concentrated and comes from our very darling country NZ.<br /> <br /> Like my facebook page<br /> <br /> <a href=""></a><br /> <br /> 5 top essential oils<br /> Their <strong>ice blue rub</strong> gets rid of all the knots in your muscles, deals with sports injuries and arthritisamazingly.<br /> <strong>Balance</strong> to keep your emotions in check<br /> <strong>Peppermint</strong> for energy, hot flushes, headaches and stomach upsets<br /> <strong>Wild Orange</strong> - my fav for cooking and childlike innocence and abundance<br /> <strong>Serenity</strong> for anxiety and perfectionism<br /> <strong>Lavende</strong>r, roman chamomile, cedarwood, serenity and vertiver for good sleep<br /> <strong>Easy Air or breathe</strong> for conjestion of chest and asthma<br /> <strong>On Guard</strong> - for seasonal threats and builind up immune and keeping out energy zappers<br /> <strong>Frankincense</strong> - well where can I begin but immune boosting first<br /> <strong>Basil&nbsp;</strong>for exhaustion and adrenal burnout<br /> their toothpaste even dentists are amazed<br /> I will know what will suit you so please call me and tell me whats going on.<br /> If you buy a pack (you save money and then you don&#39;t pay a membership)<br /> <br /><br /> ........l. could talk forever. so please please contact me so I can help you make your life so much easier - <a href=""></a><br /> <br /> Best idea is do the healthy home survey<br /> <br /> <a href=""></a>&nbsp;&nbsp;or contact me by text 0272 777734 or email <a href=""></a><br /> <br /> So look forward to you trying these amazing beyond therapeutic essential oils and&nbsp;<br /> having them to empower your family and your home to take charge of your health naturally.<br /> <br /> &nbsp;1504526400 Essential Oil Specials on Offer in September 2017 Soul Advancement at Shunyata<h3><strong>SOUL JOURNEY RETREAT NZ</strong></h3> <br /> <strong><em>There is nothing more pure in this world that the knowledge of the true self!<br /> <br /> After studying past life regression, I know that I feel truly priveleged to work with the soul both in this lifetime and in the past.</em></strong><br /> <br /> Not everyone is ready for change! &nbsp;Sometimes people stay stuck because change is so scary.<br /> But if you are held by the hand, with love and support, nourished body mind and soul and you feel safe, then truly your soul wants to take a giant leap.There has never been a time like now to do this work. &nbsp;There has been so many changes leading up to September but this month it&#39;s the time for integration. &nbsp;This is the month to come within, focus and get on track for the rest of 2017. <h3><strong>THE BEST SOUL JOURNEYS - THE JOURNEY METHOD &amp; PAST LIFE REGRESSION</strong></h3> <p><strong>Do you feel there is something holding you back from moving forward in life?<br /> Are you sick of the same old thing coming up over and over?<br /> Do you feel exhausted by life itself and need to take a break but can&#39;t find the time?<br /> Are you suffering from a physical illness and sick and tired of being sick?</strong></p> <h3><strong>Soul Retreat New Zealand</strong></h3> Shunyata is calling you home. &nbsp;Home to rest, to go inside and truly give to yourself in body, mind and soul. &nbsp;Imagine coming and cleansing your liver or colon where there are no temptations to tempt you, just gorgeous nourishing healthy food?<br /> Imagine doing yoga out on the deck overlooking the ocean and resetting that stillness button?<br /> Imagine discovering new, delicious healthy but not boring food, including gorgeous sugar free treats to die for with pure essential oils to take home to try?<br /> Imagine having time to read, meditate and journal - all about you?<br /> Imagine effortlessly dropping those extra few kilos collected over winter?<br /> Imagine everyday smelling pure, essential oils and being bathed with them in massages and body work sessions to die for?<br /> Imagine clearing out on a soul level blocks that have hindered you your whole life, either<br /> from this life or past lives?<br /> <br /> What are you waiting for - the time is here for YOU.<br /> 3 days $900 (not detox) 5 days $1500 and 7 days $2,000<br /> <br /> email <a href=""></a> or text 0272 777734 to reserve your spot after 22 Sep.<br /> <br /> &nbsp;1504267200 Advancement at Shunyata Weight Loss Retreat in New Zealand the Healthy Way<h3><strong>BEST WEIGHT LOSS RETREAT NZ</strong></h3> <br /> Everyone knows that to lose weight you need to cut down on food and exercise and yet so many of us are carrying unhealthy weight, diabetes 2 is a epidemic and bodies are starting to<br /> break down with overload. &nbsp;For me you need help and inspiration to get started. &nbsp;Are you one<br /> of those people who have tried everything? &nbsp;Lucky you made it to my page. <p>Spring is nearly here and this is the best time to detox which is what I have just done in Canada,lots of new recipes got on my overseas trip, I can&#39;t wait to help you lose those kilos in a fun, caring, loving and delicious sugar free way at Shunyata.<br /> <br /> <strong>Food Addiction in New Zealand</strong></p> <p>Many people are eating unconciously and using food for Love are you one of them? Kilos of weight gain are walls of protection and hurts accumulated from childhood and life in general Food is an addiction and one that we can&#39;t hide like other addictions - it shows painfully.Overeating is an act of spiritual starvation Our addictions are driven by deep and forgotten emotions<br /> <br /> We get the new diet, we stick it out, we lose weight and then within months the weight comes back on. Do you know this one? Diets don&#39;t go to the root cause, we need to go deeper to past conditioning, beliefs and emotions and clear them out for life.</p> <h3>Best Weight Loss NZ</h3> <p>My drug of choice was always food until I got to the bottom of loving my body and then I could eat normally. It was like coming off a cocaine addiction and I felt so free. Just recently heard of a colleague in doterra who was going through this addiction, binge eating and had to have her stomach stapled. My heart went out to her and who am I to judge, if she does the work around it and falls in love with the new her, maybe she had to do this.<br /> <br /> I eventually managed to maintain my weight for many years with a little ups and downs and on this journey became healthier and healthier.But recently I let the kilos creep up again, not by bad eating cause I eat truly healthily these days, but my excuse that I am a foodie and eating far too much and too often. I had to get real with myself and say I don&#39;t like the way you look, it looks unhealthy and as I love to live my life in integrity, I decided it was time to head back to a more loving healthy weight loss.</p> <h3><strong>Weight Loss in NZ</strong></h3> <p>So here I am 5 days into it and feeling great and dying to help you also feel great. &nbsp;Lets get real it&#39;s having the motivation to start so here at Shunyata you just have to make the decision and then I make it easy for you.&nbsp;We start off with an ayurvedic&nbsp;liver cleanse at Shunyata<br /> <a href="/pages/13-3/Detox-Weight-Loss" data-object-ref="scm_sub_page_content:3"><strong></strong></a><br /> <br /> Cause the liver iproduces bile, which breaks down&nbsp;<strong>fat</strong>&nbsp;while also working like a filter to clean toxins out of our blood, helping us feel energized. Optimizing your&nbsp;<strong>liver</strong>&nbsp;health&nbsp;<strong>can</strong>&nbsp;help you&nbsp;<strong>lose weight</strong>&nbsp;and meet your athletic goals. ... The&nbsp;<strong>liver&#39;s</strong>&nbsp;role is therefore crucial for efficient circulation, metabolism and&nbsp;<strong>fat</strong>&nbsp;breakdown.and most people lose between 3 and 6 kilos in the week effortlessly. There was one woman who couldn&#39;t lose and that was because she was carrying parasites and needed to get this in order. But only 1 in 12 years and this is where I would recommend. &nbsp;I remember the lady where the weight fell off her after doing the journey when her soul revealed why she needed the protection.</p> <p><strong><a href=""></a></strong></p> <p><strong>msg me how to get this wholesale.</strong></p> <p><strong>Lose Weight Fast the detox way</strong></p> <p>Then after you leave the retreat if you want to keep going,&nbsp;the healthiest I believe right now is the intermittent fasting which is so good for the body because it reapairs your cells, which may prevent didseases including heart disease, stroke, alzheimers &amp; other forms of dementia, type 2 diabetes and cancer and also helps blood pressure and cholestreol levels.Its called the 5-2 diet and I thought I could do it with 14 hrs between meals and this just maintained my weight not helping weight loss.<br /> <u><a href=""></a></u> and you can join their facebook page.</p> <p>Along with this I am truly increasing my exercise, yoga &frac12; an hr and up to 2-3 hrs power walking and swimming at least &frac12; an hour with lunges and sit ups etc. To help me on this I am taking <strong>;</strong><br /> which truly takes away that deprivation button and gives you lots of energy and grapefruit oil and apple cider vinegar to aid breaking down the fat.&nbsp;Many people are overdosing on this and becoming too alkaline so (maximum 2 tbspn per day) taken before meals or 2 tspn before sleep will also help.</p> <p>Well if you found your way to this page you have made the first step home back to your true self and here at Shunyata you will find that inspiration and guidance in a place of love instead of fear.</p> <p>At S<strong>hunyata</strong> you will do more than a weight loss</p> <ul> <li> <p>You&nbsp; will understand your emotional eating patterns and dissolve the walls that kept you trapped</p> </li> <li> <p>You clear deep childhood wounds &amp; reinhabit your body from dissociation<br /> You will get to &nbsp;know from a soul level why you are not losing weight</p> </li> </ul> <ul> <li> <p>You will refall in love with your body and inner child</p> </li> <li> <p>You leave with a love of good wholesome nourishing eating</p> </li> <li> <p>You will be inspired and held safely as you return to love</p> </li> <li> <p>You will learn how to make delicious sugar free recipes<br /> &nbsp;</p> </li> </ul> <p>I feel truly blessed to help people get started to truly fall in love with their bodies again.It&#39;s so easy when you can&#39;t access food, where you are doing yoga and lovely ocean walks every day and growing inside. It inspires you to take this back to your normal world. I am honoured to help you fall deeply in love with this healthy fit body again</p> <p>feel free to check the comments on trip advisor</p> <p><a href=""></a></p> <p>email me @ <a href=""></a> or text 0272 777734.&nbsp;<br /> space available from 1 Octoberf</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <ul> </ul> <p>&nbsp;</p>1502020800 Loss Retreat in New Zealand the Healthy Way What Truly Happens for you here at Shunyata<p><em><strong>Do you feel no matter what work you have done on yourself, the same stuff keeps coming up over and over?</strong></em><br /> <br /> The work we do at Shunyata comes from the soul. &nbsp;We all have a soul but it is hard to access it.<br /> The best work we can ever do on ourselves is when our soul reveals the truth. &nbsp;My job is to open you to the awareness beyond the subconscious to what your soul wants to reveal so you can be empowered to move through the doorway of the block that is holding you back.<br /> <br /> Deep understandings and awakenings happen when you get these messages. &nbsp;<br /> <br /> People leave Shunyata with:</p> <p>1. Happiness and lightness in being</p> <p>2. Deeper understanding and knowing of their true selves</p> <p>3. A new beginning and hope for the future</p> <p>4. A better connection with&nbsp;loved ones with the power of forgiveness</p> <p>5. An opening to deeper wisdom and a more meaningful life</p> <p>6. A reclaimed innocence on connecting with the inner child</p> <p>7. An honesty beyond illusion and denial</p> <p>8. Magic starting to happen</p> <p>9. A chance to connect more deeply and love more unconditionally<br /> <br /> 10. &nbsp;Knowing their purpose and why they are here</p> <p>Everyone is unique and everyone&#39;s experience is different but usually Shunyata trulyhelps people in a time when life gives us a wake up. The way of living can&#39;t work anymore (the ego) and the soul wants to find true long standing happiness. It maybe you need to heal the body which is linked. So many body issues are related to emotional blocks. The Journey works fast to awaken you to your infinite potential so you can achieve success in your life. It is proven to be amazing for depression, anxiety, stress, career blocks, relationship issues and many other challenges in life.</p> <p>Shunyata with Paru, has been open for 12 years and after having a deep wake up call herself in Byron BayAustralia, losing custody of her child, she formed this retreat to help other people who go through rough times in life. Her intense passion for her own awakening allows her to continually upgrade herself to help you in your journey. Also at this present time there is an incredible awakening happening on the planet and people are awakening everywhere and she feels blessed to be part of it in service.Her&nbsp;specialisation is the enneagram for the path to freedom, emotional healing and couples opening to a deeper love. She also offers physical detox with ayurveda which takes the retreat to an even deeper level in body mind and soul.</p> <p>Many people will not reach out with the ego of pride, or do not know there is help out there and continue to suffer and continue to live in mediocrity. Her deepest prayer is that people wake up to their true potential and live life more full, present and aware.</p> <p>Combining yoga, gorgeous healthy but delicious food, meditation, rest, contemplation and essential oils, ozone saunas and delectable body work, not to mention amazing ocean views &ndash; your being will be transformed and taken home. . Email <a href=""></a> or text 0272 777734 or call 03 3294773 and book your retreat.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1498132800 Truly Happens for you here at Shunyata Want some More Spark in your love life<h2>SEXUAL HEALING IN NEW ZEALAND</h2> <h2>THE LAST RESORT - COUPLES RETREAT IN NZ</h2> <p>Do you feel there is always a block there when you go to make love?</p> <p>Sometimes it is truly hard to recognise if sexual abuse has happened but something doesn&#39;t feel right and there is often fear in the body and you can&#39;t truly open totally. Each time you enter another relationship &ndash; something comes up in the lovemaking. Are you sick and tired of this happening. Do you want to put this to bed for good.</p> <p>Enter Shunyata, The Journey and Doterra essential oils</p> <p><strong>Why Paru</strong></p> <p>Life guides you if you are open to the guidance and maybe you don&#39;t see it till years later.My path began in Byron Bay after losing custody of my child and I was the travel agent sending thousands of Sanyassins to Osho Ashram in Pune and loved their peace inside and wanted a little for myself. So took long service leave and went off to this amazing place. I laughed and said, I thought I came for free sex and love, did I miss the boat, but unbeknowing to me I was on a journey to clear out all the guilt and shame I had picked up from a catholic upbringing around sexuality. I don&#39;t think I was abused but there was fear in my body when doing craniosacral balancing. So from that day onward my journey began &ldquo;Finding god through sex&rdquo;.</p> <p>Soon after&nbsp;<a href="">David Deida</a>&nbsp;arrived and revolutionised our community with sexual polarity. It was all about openenss and as I was shutting down a lot at this time, kept following his work and truly found my feminine side at 40.</p> <h3><strong>ROMANTIC COUPLES RETREAT NEAR CHRISTCHURCH NZ</strong></h3> <p>At this time knew I had to work with&nbsp;<a href="">The Journey</a>&nbsp;so decided to come home as there was somuch sexual abuse that was pushed under the table &ndash; the very english way and wanted to work with people in my own country. Shunyata has been open 12 years now and one of my specialties has been openenss and healing abuse and blocks from sexual trauma.</p> <p>There is so much more to just sex. The orgasm just lasts a few seconds. When the feminine is open, trusting and in surrender &ndash; the masculine consciousness enters her and her whole body is in full orgasm. This can be available to all of us if we want enough.<br /> Enter<strong>&nbsp;Tantra</strong>&nbsp;&ndash; slowing down the whole process and bringing meditation and consciousness to lovemaking.In tantra you learn how to relate to your partner, with honesty, openness and vulnerability. My partner once said to be me,&quot; Your loving melts my fears&quot;, this is true intimacyand It&#39;s only from that place that you can have really beautiful lovemaking. It is a totally different approach to sex.Tantra enables you to become more conscious, mindful and aware on a moment-to-moment basis, and helps you to say yes to the parts of life that inspire, excite and interest you.<br /> <br /> Great Article by a friend on arousal for women - thank you Elle<br /> <br /> <a href=""></a></p> <p>Don&#39;t you long to experience something more than the quickie?<br /> Do you want to bring your relationship and lovemaking to a higher level of consciousness? Sometimes in a group situation &quot;You can feel a bit daft, embarrassed and self-conscious, so this is why Shunyata offers one on one couples retreats where it&#39;s all about you.<br /> Paru has adapted an &nbsp;amazing ability to meet you where you are at and take you just a little deeper..Some people pay $2000 per day for this one on one coaching &ndash; you can have 5 days for<a href="">&nbsp;$2,500&nbsp;a couple</a>&nbsp;in this little untouched ocean view paradise and people will always remember the 3 course romantic dinner at the end.</p> <p>If you can&#39;t make it on retreat &ndash; then you can do a journey on skype ParuClarke&nbsp;<a href=""></a></p> <h3><strong>Doterra Essentail Oils NZ for Intimacy</strong></h3> <p>To help you in this new way of being enter Doterra essential oils &ndash; the new(<a href="" target="_blank"><strong>Whisper essential oil blend</strong></a>) contains&nbsp;patchouli,&nbsp;<a href="" target="_blank">bergamot</a>t, sandalwood, rose, jasmine, cinnamon bark, vetiver, ylang ylang, geranium, and cocoa and vanilla bean extracts and can be used to enhance sensual feelings and help you to connect to your feminine qualities.</p> <p><strong>Some gir</strong><strong>ls love</strong>&nbsp;the floral scents, such as ylang ylang, jasmine or rose. &nbsp;Some love being energized by spicy scents, like cinnamon, or energizing scents, like lemon or orange. &nbsp;Some women may consider a relaxing scent to be sensual, while others may find that an invigorating scent increases their sexual energy.Some blends that are gorgeous we use here at Shunyata are:</p> <ul> </ul> <p><a href="" target="_blank"><strong>Ylang ylang</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;+&nbsp;</strong><a href="" target="_blank"><strong>wild orange</strong></a><strong>,<br /> Patchouli and wild orange</strong><br /> <a href="" target="_blank"><strong>Bergamot</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;+ ylang ylang</strong><br /> Clary sage &amp; Cinnamon<br /> Sandalwood &amp; Arborivitae</p> <p>of course jasmine and rose but these oils need so much to make them so pure up to doterras standards &ndash; so not available for sale only on competition.</p> <p>If you want to obtain these oils retail on my site&nbsp;<strong></strong>&nbsp;or join up to get 25% off wholesale email&nbsp;<a href=""></a><br /> <br /> Paru Clarke runs Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa &nbsp; www.</p>1495627200 some More Spark in your love life Love and Freedom<p>&nbsp;</p> <h2>Love or freedom</h2> <p>Some of us chose love and some of us want freedom. Imagine that we could have it all and what does it truly mean for each of you. &nbsp;Have you really dived into this - What is love?<br /> What is true freedom?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Love &ndash; well I have been doing my masters on this subject in this lifetime. I, being an emotional type and love bunny, always was looking for that love on the outside owing to abandonment in childhood. So knowing what love truly was has been my life mission. Now I know myself as love and have overcome tragic romantic and have recently placed more priority on freedom and have had to truly look at what freedom means for me and how can we have it all.</p> <p>Quote from a poem from Kahil Gibran</p> <p><em>Love one another, but make not a bond of love:<br /> Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.<br /> Fill each other&#39;s cup but drink not from one cup.<br /> Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf<br /> Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,<br /> Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.</em></p> <p>As my path to true unconditional and higher love has been through the<a href="/pages/13-2/Emotional-Healing-the-Eneeagram-Past-Life-Regression" data-object-ref="scm_sub_page_content:2"> enneagram</a> which tells us what we are not but what has been running us and helping us understand why we are so different. I have noticed that in relationships opposites usually attract, because if we got someone like us, needy for example, it would repulse us. We go for a partner that has the traits that we want and when they can&#39;t give it to us, then the problems start and we have to find<br /> this quality in ourselves.&nbsp;So either&nbsp;we marry our parents cause the energy feels familiar or&nbsp;our soul is attracted to what we are lacking. My last partner lived unconditional love not putting conditions on me but didn&#39;t give to himself . But I wanted this unconditional love for myself, to live more unconditional so I started practicing on friends and family. I feel we served each other to grow beyond ego. &nbsp;I broke his pleaser and he broke my getting my own way and of course tragic romantic and I will be truly grateful.</p> <p>I have explored<a href=""> polyamory</a> and realised it is not for me as I am a one woman/man but loved some of the principles of truth and honesty and the breaking down of jealousy.&nbsp;I watched people practicing it and wasn&#39;t convinced that their consciousness was that evolved and some people were using it as an excuse for more sex.</p> <h3>Did you loveThe Last Resort - Couples Retreat Extrodainaire</h3> <p>Women long for a present trustable masculine principle and if we can&#39;t find this in a partner<br /> we search for it in a teacher so we can truly relax into our feminine qualities being <strong>receptivity,<br /> trust, surrender, patience and being.</strong></p> <p>Imagine if we truly bowed down to the higher part of someone from their gifts or their purpose not their egos and served them to grow up not grow old. Most men want freedom and most women want love. If we truly knew ourselves as love and men as being free, instead of looking for it on the outside we would stop suffering.</p> <p>Imagine if every man felt free from responsibility and wasn&#39;t always tryng to run from love in order to have freedom.. Imagine he wasn&#39;t living from his mind, which is full of<strong> fear doub</strong>t and <strong>judgemen</strong>t, but was truly present. This is trustable and sexy for a woman.<br /> <br /> Imagine if his women knew how to take him out of his head and into his heart so they could<br /> commune more from this place and practice tantra, present love.</p> <p>The words you speak become the house you live in.</p> <p>~ Sufi Saying<br /> ( Hafiz )</p> <p>The book I truly recommend for all men to read is</p> <p><a href="">&ldquo;The Way of the Superior Man&rdquo;</a> by David Deida. This is written for men from a man and truly helps you to understand presence and integrity which a woman craves for. &nbsp;So many relationships have been saved with this book.</p> <p>Imagine a world where we spoke to our beloveds as</p> <p><em>I feel your fear, I am here for you my beloved</em></p> <p>Recently I have had a lot of people email and call to book for shunyata and then I don&#39;t hear from them. It is fear that is come in I am sure. What we resist, persists and when you face this fear of the unknown you are free. You have been running from your own freedom by living from the mind. &nbsp;At shunyata we show you this heart space and help you to implement it into your lives.</p> <p>We are either living in fear or love and as a recent client said after her journey -<em>nothing is that bad </em>and from the mind this is how bad it can get. So live from the heart or from the mind which is full of fear doubt and judgement.We often follow what we knew in childhood watching the behaviour our parents showed us&nbsp;and if we truly want to change this then we need to break this pattern in a cellular form with The Journey method. &nbsp;There has never been such a time to break these patterns or childhood wounds - people are awakening all over the planet right now.&nbsp;We are in relationship to heal these childhood wounds.</p> <p>Typical is to see in the paper &ndash; <em>Bronco&#39;s captain saved his marriage by forgiving his mother.</em> Aimee Whitehouse never got over the abandonment of her father so that wound stayed with her and turned her into an addict and therefore she couldn&#39;t share her amazing gift.It is time to grow up and not grow old and this is what we can do in relationship. Hey men us women are leaving you behind in this awakening field as it is truly the time of the feminine. We don&#39;t want this, we want you to face your fears and become real men. &nbsp;I own my part in emasculating men, my mother taught me well, but that has finished. &nbsp;I am sick of competing with men I am longing to<br /> see shiva and shakti dancing.<br /> <br /> Us women need to trust your integrity men and we need you to stand in our emotions not run to your caves<br /> Integrity is living in courage not fear and practicing what you preach.</p> <p>Many people come to Shunyata where they are just existing not truly living,If you stay behind the fear you will live in mediocrity. If you jump you will live the most amazing free and love filled life. Get out of the rut.It&#39;s truly&nbsp;urgent that love be the vehicle that we live our lives from instead of fear.There is enough violence and terrorism on this planet, lets return to love and we can start in our relationships, because life is relationship.<br /> <br /> email <a href=""></a> &nbsp; or tel 03 3294773 or text 0272 777734</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1495540800 and Freedom Best Therapy Ever for Sexual Abuse New Zealand<h2><strong>SEXUAL HEALING IN NEW ZEALAND#thejourneymethod</strong></h2> <p>The papers are full again this weekend of the amount of sexual abuse that is prevalent in NewZealand and working with people for over 15 years now I thought it was time to truly speak up.<br /> As per the statistics in page</p> Sexual abuse is one of the key social problems undermining the health and wellbeing of our population today.&nbsp; It has a wide prevalence and can have a high impact. <ul> <li> <p><strong>1 out of 3 girls&nbsp;</strong>may be sexually abused before she turns 16 years old. Most of this abuse (90%) will be done by someone she knows and 70% will involve genital contact. For maori women the statistics might be up to twice this.</p> </li> </ul> <ul> <li> <p><strong>1 in 7 boys</strong>&nbsp;may be sexually<strong>&nbsp;</strong>abused by adulthood.<br /> <br /> New Zealand is &nbsp;placed the country third highest, alongside Australia. for sexual abuse and only approx 9% is reported. &nbsp;What does that mean for people trying to heal?<br /> &nbsp;</p> </li> </ul> <p>I was away from New Zealand for 27 years and living in Byron Bay and was fortunate to meet many Sanyassins from Osho in my travel agency&nbsp;and ended up going to the ashram in Pune, India myself after losing custody of my child. I was brought up a catholic and always had a lot of guilt and shame around my sexuality and often wondered if my alcoholic father ever abused me. But the Osho Asram in Pune was perfect for this healing.I didn&#39;t know what was going on at the time but I turned this completely around and learnt to love my body with dance therapy beyond eating disorders and sexual shame. Coming home to New Zealand on many occasions I noticed the amount of sexual abuse that was going on here with the proper english way (don&#39;t talk about it) and decided to come home to share The Journey Brandon Bays work in my own country.</p> <h3>The Journey For Sexual Abuse NZ</h3> <p>12&nbsp;years ago,after studying The Journey Brandon Bays, I opened Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa in beautiful Diamond Harbour and have been working with a lot of people who have been abused sexually. A lot of the time they were told not to talk about it, it was a family shame and was kept quiet. This always comes out later on in life and is still stored in the cells and despite rehab after addictions, many years of counselling, they are still not complete in their healing. They still carry this shame in their cells and feel impure and this is where the Journey comes in. There is a need for forgiveness, there is need for reconnecting with the little girl inside and falling in love with the body, there is a compassion that comes in and a completion when the soul does the work. I see time and time again, completion, not acceptance but true completion of an issue that has been in the cells for years. &nbsp;Just recently worked with two women who had done years of counselling, been in rehab and followd the 12 step and yet still had cellular memory stored. &nbsp; Time and time again people come and truly after many years of therapy find<br /> they have a closure with the journey method and this deeply touches my heart that they can<br /> heal the traumas and come back to their true sexual self in wholeness.</p> <p>Cellular healing has always been my passion, so much I left Brazil to continue my trainingin craniosacal with somational release (verbalising as cellular memory is released out of the body).It happened if the body was ready, not always but in the journey it nearly always happens so the two combined therapies work hand in hand.</p> <p>You can go into counselling but as the mind is full of fear, doubt and judgement, the true healing never happens. Caroline Myss recently said in her video on &ldquo;Why Some People Don&#39;t Heal.Iif we keep the story open, we become the story&quot;, in survivors of rape.</p> <h3><strong>Sexual Abuse and the Journey Brandon Bays</strong></h3> <p>Do you want to open your heart and love again in a healthy way?<br /> Do you truly want to put to bed what happened to you and start over, second chance, new beginnings?<br /> Do you want final &nbsp;true freedom in your life, in your body, heart and soul?<br /> Do you want to put this abuse to bed for good?<br /> Come back to your open sensual gorgeous self now<br /> <br /> and &nbsp;contact Paru 03 3294773 or txt 0272 777734 or come to Shunyata<br /> or email</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><a href=""></a></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>and if you are not in New Zealand you can contact me to do a journeyover skype <strong></strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p>1487588400 Therapy Ever for Sexual Abuse New Zealand