Success or Abundance - The true secret to Abundance from experience - 18th Jul 2016

Abundance or Success
Abundance has a good vibe to it but it has so much more. Here i will tell you
The main difference.
50% of people are depressed, 60% of people are unhappy, there is a huge
Student debt and many people are taking antidepressants and itś getting worse.
 Everyone will have their definition of abundance but for me it has come from
 experience.  I had been successful in the worldś eyes.  I was at the top of my
Career as a travel agent, travelled the world, spoke 3 languages and had a numerous amount of french boyfriends and I thought I had it all.  Well the universe had other 
plans for me at 32 years old I lost custody of my child and thank god I was living in 
Byron Bay at the time where the movement of personal development and spirituality was in abundance.  So here started my journey in. Success is always dependent on 
the outside and never sure.  It comes and goes and the bar is always being raised.  If you look at people who are successful, how many of them are truly happy inside. 
 Always chasing the next goalpost and never being in the moment.
 Why I advocate  and teach
abundance is because itś not dependent on anything on the outside and is living 
beyond the mind.

  1.  Itś all one, connected in tune with nature
  2.  If you work at a job that is your passion and makes you happy, abundance flows
  3. Itś a balance in life of body, mind and soul and living your passions
  4. Itś effortless because it comes out of your true authentic self, no struggle.
  5. Itś being the energy of abundance - less doing more being
  6. Itś stopping and appreciating life on a daily basis, gratitude also has a great vibe -
  7.  more beauty flows
  8. Itś continuous gratefulness for what you have not striving for what you dont
  9. Itś sharing your abundance by being of service to the world in your essence and it 
  10. comes back 10 fold
  11. Itś not automatic pilot but experiencing life beyond the mind, smell, taste, sound, what brings you present and joy
  12. Itś a connection with a higher power and the belief in magic
  13. Itś living life on purpose each sharing our gifts and following which brings us joy
  14. Itś limitless and living from the heart in causeless joy not the mind
  15. Itś not believing in the unconscious beliefs and patterns but living more from your 
  16. authentic self
  17. Itś freedom to do what in you love in creativity, time and vitality
  18. Itś living from innocence like a child, open and curious - the more we know the less we know
  19. Moving out of living from fear and embracing the unknown and change
  20. Itś being with the what is in the now
  21. Finally personaly abundance is living a beautiful higher love in relationship
  22.  honouring each other with deep respect and growing together and the feeling of 
  23. great humility, openenss and a great big smile for life.
The education system needs to be changed.  Itś creating drones and preparing us for a materialistic life.  This is why so many people are depressed trying to live up to a system that doesnt make people happy.  They need to bring in emotional intelligence 
training teaching children how to be with their emotions, yoga to be conscious of the body and meditation for mindfulness.
You have to really want this for yourself.  You cant have a vision without action.
My abundant life truly happened when I was introduced to DOTERRAŚ WILD ORANGE OIL.  This oil is so juicy, so alive and so vibrant.  Known for lightness, child like innocence, pure joy and abundance.  My life truly started to change-
And I deeply want this for all of us.
Book a retreat at Shunyata by the end of August for September, October or 
November and receive this free oil when u mention  this add.  250 drops of pure abundance.
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Your true abundance in your life and come home to yourself.

Living a Higher Love - Relationships Today - 18th Jul 2016

Living a Higher Love - Relationships Today Relationships and Higher Loving

DARIUS BOYD  - How learning to forgive his mother helped the new broncos captain save his marriage and his career.

This is the work we do here at Shunyata
How do you love?  Do you know that most of us were never taught to love
Properly and what we learnt came mainly from what we saw until 7 years old
With our parents.  If we are good in our relationships we are good in life!!!!!
So how do we get there?
We as humans have needs that we hope our partner will fulfill like need for
Security, pleasure, importance, to become, to be needed, to grow etc but often
These needs are not met by our partners and we suffer.  We enter a relationship
 in the euphoria phase or honeymoon stage and we dont see theTruth and our egos
 are glazed over by that person.  They are amazing!!!!!!
Next stage realisation we we find their true faults, we dont say anything but
Enter internally into a sort of rebellion and often here people will break up,
Not leaving time for the deepening of this love.  We have so many more 
Beautiful stages to go through with our life partner and we just take the same
Problems to the next relationship and this is why so many relationships dont work
 and cause suffering.
I have made it my lifelong mission to serve a higher love in people, to help couples
 where they are at and open their hearts to come back to this love.Many people have
 not touched the mystery and the beauty of this love but weAll want it.  Dont you think
 your relationship is worth it? Most relationships are just attachment not love and we become beggars for love. 
 We expect the other to totally satisfy us and when they dont we suffer.  We truly need
 to know this love for ourselves first then the compassion and the unconditional love
 prospers for the other.  Awareness, mindfulness and deep passion will bring you the 
joy and love you truly want.
Many couples who have come to Shunyata in the last 11 years have opened their
 hearts again to each other and it is my deepest prayer that this happens for you both.  
It takes great courage but this love is worth it and you will be guided home to each
All couples booking a relationship retreat in September, October and November 2016
 by 31 August 5 DAYS $2000 will qualify for a free oil with doterra when u mention 
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Emotional Healing - The most powerful way in New Zealand - 31st May 2016

Emotional Healing - The most powerful way in New Zealand

Are you carrying negative beliefs, conditioning & thoughts that are impeding your healing and blocking magic in your life?

Have you ever considered a retreat from the world? It’s never been a better time to take time out from your thoughts and retreat from your mind . Assess your beliefs and emotions and gain clarity and direction to take back your power to live a life from your highest potential.

Many of us are carrying emotional blocks that impede our physical healing and at Shunyata retreat and spa we can assess these and clear the major block that is stopping you living your
true potential.

Maybe you want to take an emotional fitness test to see how you score

We are bombarded by articles and advertisements about the value of becoming physically fit. What about your emotional fitness? How would life be if you were really emotionally free. Take this questionnaire to determine your emotional health. Each question has 4 answers to choose from. Please total the numbers from all answers.

1. Do you stop yourself from feeling emotions?

Often(1), sometimes(2), rarely(3), never(4)

2. How do you deal with anger?

Explode(1), suppress(2), talk about(3), feel it(4)

3. When someone else expresses anger do you –

Feel scared(1), explode with anger yourself(2), speak up for yourself(3), let their anger stay with them(4)

4. Do allow yourself to cry?

Never(1), rarely(2), sometimes(3), usually(4)

5. Do anxious feelings stop you from trying something new?

Never(1), rarely(2), sometimes(3), usually(4)

6. When someone close to you died, how did you react?

Not grieve(1), grieve a little(2), tell yourself to stop grieving(3), let yourself feel it(4)

7. Do you laugh, sing and dance with happiness?

Never(1), rarely(2), sometimes(3), often(4)

8. When you are criticized do you –

Feel neutral(4), stick up for yourself(3), criticize yourself(2), feel stupid(1)

9. Do you find yourself wanting approval from others?

Never(4), rarely(3), sometimes(2), often(1)

10. Do you blame others for how you feel?

Never(4), rarely(3), sometimes(2), often(1)

11. Do you feel grateful?

Often(4), sometimes(3), rarely(2), never(1)

12. How long does it take you to bounce back from feeling low?

1hr(4), 1 day(3), 1 week(2), longer(1)


42 - 48: You are emotionally healthy. An appointment with me could allow you to open further to the abundance of life.

35 - 41: Be aware of the areas in which you are not allowing yourself to open and feel emotions. I can facilitate this with you.

25 - 34: Make an appointment with me and get to the cause of being emotionally shut down.

Below 24: Definitely make an appointment soon to honour yourself and live life more freely.

Shunyata has been open for 12 years now specialising in emotional healing with The Journey 
Brandon Bays, Oneness techniques from the university in India where over 2million people have awakened, Doterra pure essential oils which aid in feeling whatever is blocked, NLP
(Neuro linguistic Programming) and many more modalities that address you individually on opening your heart and soul to living a more full life.





Preventative Medicine and doTerra Essential oils New Zealand - 18th Apr 2016

Preventative Medicine and doTerra Essential oils New Zealand

DoTerra will change your life

I gave up a $75,000 income working for Flight Centre's to earn $25,000 for quality of life after watching my mother have a stroke at 50 and live in suffering for a further 25 years. I have never looked back. My wake up call in Byron Bay 30 years ago has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I sit here today nearly 60 years and feel so grateful for all the gifts bestowed upon me to empower people to take charge of their health and healing. Someone mentioned in the recent doTerra conference that they felt honoured that they could leave this earth knowing that their children will be looked after with these oils and this really touched me.

Shunyata retreat has been open for 12 years now and with my passion for emotional healing and ayurveda, I have witnessed nothing less than miracles in healing and the speed is amazing.Enter Doterra sublime essential oils and in the last year this healing has accelerated 10 fold. Imagine smelling this gorgeous fragrance that goes straight to your limbic area or emotional seat of the brain. This is why essential oils are the most pure and quickest way to heal emotions.Many clients who come to do the journey for emotional healing might be a type that runs from emotions, another that numbs emotions and with these oils all that patterning disappears and grief and sadness is finally met. I am in love, I now understand what wild orange (my always favourite) did for my candida. It allowed me to feel what was not being felt.
This is the secret ingredient to healing illness that we hear time and time again with people who use the oils.

Why wait till we get sick, why not prevent illness. Disease  is broken down to dis ease - smelling these oils brings ease to feel.  People who have been sick know that you can have all the money in the world and it means nothing if you are sick. I know that I asked for illness because I needed to have the compassion for people who live with daily pain. My heart goes out to you and this is why my mission statement is to help people to empower themselves to heal naturally.

Some of the costs of recent surgery in NZ
Hysterectomy between $12 and $20,000
Prostrate Removal $14 - $24,000
Total Knee Replacement $20-$29,000

Yes the medical profession are amazing when the bones have been broken and we need to get repaired. But what about doing yoga for a week of exercises that will fix knee issues and avoid operations. (Have 4 cases where this has worked) and even better with deep blue oil and deep blue rub wholesale price $38.50US and  $33 US 

The cost of these oils are minimum. One drop of peppermint is immediate enough to get rid of a headache,give you limitless energy for the day and oxygenate your cells and clear mental fog. Equal to 28 teabags. Wholesale price for 250 dropsUS $24.50 Wouldn't you love to have this in your handbag along with my other favourite Wild orange not only lightens your mood, but brings causeless joy, abundance and light energy wholesale price $13 US.

New to doterra are the emotional blends – wow wow wow. I have been smelling motivate with passion and lots and lots of amazing writing is happening. I have used console and people have shifted  deep grief and sadness  The forgiveness blend is beyond amazing. We all know the power of forgiveness – it frees you up to move on in life in freedom. Many people in the journey process are not ready to forgive, smell this oil and voila.

How could you not have these oils in your life.

Go to my website
 and either join and save 25% or under shop pay the retail price and if you want to know
more about these little gems email or telephone 03 3294773 and let me share my passion for life with you



Who Am I truly? My Story from the truth of who I am - 1st Apr 2016

Who Am I truly?  My Story from the truth of who I am



I have just finished my teachers book “Hidden Treasure “– Uncovering the truth of your life story by Gangaji and it has sent me on an even deeper level of self enquiry and given me the motivation and passion to speak my true story.

I feel so blessed sitting up in my kitchen overlooking the yachts bobbing in the harbour and watching the sunrise, listening to Peruquios singing and looking back over my life story and finding the grace and the truth in it all. The doterra oil of motivation and passion has helped me write this blog.

Have you ever sat in stillness and asked yourself these questions. Who am I truly? Why am I here? What is my gift or my purpose in life? What is the truth behind my story? Even sitting still is hard for most of us including myself.Are you living or just existing? There is so much more and have you let life take you to where you get the answers to these questions? Many people who come to Shunyata find out this answer just by sitting still and seeing who they are not – what has been running them – ego and then to go onto who they truly are and what a difference they can make in this world.

What is it that is blocking you? I realise a lot of my blocks were the addiction to drama, tragedyand unworthiness. This magic could happen to everyone else but not me! Hearing Gangaji's story of her life from a deeper prospective I realise that even though we have the same ego type and the same tendency to suffering and tragedy – her story is so different from mine in a truthful way.She found this place of peace and safety at a very early age in the form of an angel– I didn't even look there until 30 years old when I was forced on the path of intense suffering. A lot of my friends couldn't be around me at that time, they preferred the party girl full of highs and lows.

But grace or magic came in so many forms in the last 25 years with amazing teachers and teachingsand I feel so truly grateful to these teachers today and for my willingness and courage to keep on this path. Gratitude takes openness and the willingness to set your ego aside. Gratitude and humility (the 2 highest qualities in my eyes) send signals to all who meet us that we are all connected to something larger than life.

If we truly look back in our life – it was one miracle. My issue was mistrust. I was brought up acatholic and carried a lot of guilt and shame around my sexuality so I was angry with the catholic church. I thought spiritual people were real. I had to learn about the fact that we are all human.Therapists would teach such amazing teachings and then come into my travel agency and be true arseholes. I would shut down and then beat myself up for shutting down because David Deida said we should be open. Another incident came up on the same theme when one of my teachers has an affair with one of his students and thankfully was helped through this one to discover it was all about my self righteousness and we are humans having a spiritual experience and to leave myself some room for mistake and being human.On going to Osho – my master in Pune – I thought I was going to learn about free sex and love –I didn't need a master but what was really going on was my enquiry to What is true love? What is a higher love and what is surrender in the feminine form? Also unknown to me at the time, I got involved in dance therapy which took me to truly fall in love with my body and heal my eating disorders. A true miracle and when my mother died, the person closest to me in whole world, on reading her Eulogy, a priest truly saw my mother, so I healed with the catholic church.


 “If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, Infinite. For man has closed himself up, till he sees all things thro’ narrow chinks of his cavern.”  William Blake


We are either living from fear (false evidence appearing real) or love. The mind is full of fear, doubt and judgement and 95% of us live from this place. You can't get rid of the mind or fear you have to dive into the raw pure emotion of fear and make friends with your mind. Many people are scared of change and scared of death. If you really want to do this letting go of the ego – you have to die to the old ways and grow up. I was so attached to being sucessful(my ego pattern) to get my father's approval that when I decided to come back to New Zealand to open Shunyata Retreat to help people in suffering, I went into intense fear of the unknown. I had to literally shake with the deepest fear and have never been scared of the unknown since. I was so used to being sucessful as a travel agent, little did I know what Shunyata had to teach me. A deep trust in life.  Now success has been my gift from my father as what is success truly?


You cannot run from your emotions, if it's peace you seek, dive into the core of the emotion!

My feeling that most people who are scared of death haven't lived. This is two certain things in life, change and death so you can understand why so many people are living in fear. I simply love this poem The Invitation by Oriah

 I knew I had to trulyget ready for the first major death in my life, my mother and what was worse, we had to take her off liquids and food after 5 strokes. This was the hardest time of my life so I spent a year before preparing myself, listening to people's stories and reading lots .Brandon Bays had said grief shouldn't need to take more than 7 days if you go into it totally. I did , I let my emotions be out of control totally and it took 2 months but today I live the legacy of my mother – I live her passion not her suffering. !

Grief has to be felt, time has to be had and everyone grieves in different ways. It is out of control. Some people say get on with it, but society is the cult.

Trust that everything happens for a reason to serve you

In the 11 years I have worked with people many people have strong sabateurs that stop them living their potential.  This sabateur can come in the form of pride, unworthiness, numbness,
fear of confrontation and rage.  My sabateur was so strong when I first did the journey intensive 18 years ago when I came out and my mind doubted everything. But looking back on this memory release,  this journey has been the beginning of a souls learning with my sister.  We had so much sibling rivalry and today we serve each other on a deep level..



My other huge learning in life came to me from 2 of my major teachers – my father and my son.My ego type was so sensitive, I took everything personal and often felt hurt by people's comments.I would hold onto these comments and rehash and go over and over them and then devise a way to get back at them. Well the 2 people who hurt me most, were my son and my father. They taught me to not take it personal and get over the hurt, it was my hurt and I then came out of victim.


Life offers us challenges so we can expand our abilities and stretch our horizons and strengthen in ourselves.


In the 11 years I have been working with people, and in my own life, the other emotion which was often there was loneliness. I now realise I was always running from being alone and until I deeply fell in love with myself, that loneliness has become all oneness. Remember you wake up with you every day, wouldn't it be good to love your own company. This is the best investment you can ever make.

Which brings me to self love. No-one ever taught us to love ourselves. They said this was selfish.What about self caring? How can we be with or love another person if we are not full.? How can we be a carer, mother or any role unless we are there for ourselves?Everything else is coming from ego, either pleasing or trying to get their love ,and eventually you will burn out or crack cause it's exhausting keeping it up.
.My journey and ego pattern had been to get love on the outside,I would try try and try, sell my soul, achieve, do anything to get this love. Often I would burn out which many people are experiencing these days. My candida ,which I asked for a year ago, was this journey of burn out and learning to get my no stronger. It was showing me ways in which my ego was still running me. It also gave me deep compassion for people who had to experience pain in their bodies. I had never been through problems with my physical health and life taught me many things on this path. It was the hardest thing in the world for a foodie like myself, but an incredible learning. The body will tell you what you need to learn and how many times do we ignore it. Right now I have had a pain in my heart so deep, couldn't sleep last night and it has been there for 2 days and I couldn't get the message. On doing a reading it was about the oil of communication. It was telling me to stop, and do this article, and I was looking for who I wasn't being true to in communication and finally truly got this message. As I write right now this pain is slowly subsiding. To think I was nearly ready to go to the doctor.


Everything that happens to you in life is a gift for your soul to deepen – listen to your body!


Forgiveness is so important to clear your soul. It is not easy and can be more painful than the wound. But to have true peace we have to forgive the souls of the people who wronged us. Weare not forgiving their actions.

This was truly hard for me to forgive my ex husband who won custody of my child and harassed me for 10 years after from his pain of me leaving him. But when his soul appeared and communicated that he was devastated that I left him, I could understand why he was so bitter and angry with me. On forgiving his soul my victim story was over from that dayand life changed so deeply

. Often when I am doing the journey here at Shunyata the forgiveness isn't always easy for people, thank god for doterra and their new blend of forgivenss, they smell that and we break through authentically. This sets you free totally and you are supported.  You are forgiving for yourself to be free.

The next topic I want to talk about is prayer and gratefulness. I was asked recently to speak about a prayer around gratefulness and realised that how can you describe this that is the same. You are genuinely grateful when your ego gets out of the way. You don't pray for a million $, you notice what amazingness you have in your life and give gratitude to this. This is prayer. You notice it is not you that has given this to you, it is all of your teachers, your family, your life, your loved ones and everything that has made you who you are today.

Recently on going to the oneness university in India, I named my higher power Sweet Laxmi Divine – sweet to soften me when I am hard on myself, Laxmi for the goddess of abundance as I have had to truly know what abundance is beyond money and divine for the feminine form. I give thanks to her everyday.


There are only 2 ways to live – you can live as if nothing is a miracle or everything is a miracle


My deepest prayer is that people come to get to know who they truly are, their essence, thei rhigher self and dedicate their life to this truth and drop the veils of illusion and denial, that is living from the mind and the ego and share their purpose or their gift with the world.


It is your birthright to be happy and my deepest prayer is  that all beings be free and live from causeless joy

Today I am living the life of my dreams after deeply transforming on the inside, doing the work I love, travelling the world and touching people with a deep love and would want this
for you too

If you want to come and experience a one on one retreat at Shunyata or contact Paru to do a talk in New Zealand please email



Goddesses Never Age - They just grow Wise & Radiant - 3rd Mar 2016

Goddesses Never Age - They just grow Wise & Radiant

Emotional and Spirtual Healing in New Zealand

Wow I was just walking down the beach on the gold coast and saw this blonde lady running towards me and she looked amazing, slim, blonde and fit but she wasn't smiling. She didn'tlook like she was enjoying this run and I knew that I wouldn't swap my body with hers ever.I realised that radiance comes from a smile within. Doesn't matter what your body shape is, how old you are but that radiance comes from the inside out. My smile means more to me than a perfect body.

“We are not held back by the love we didn't receive in the past, but by the love we're not extending in the present.” 
― Marianne Williamson

I see balance in all things. I am connected to the feminine. I create life Clary Sage

Next year I am 60 and friends keep reminding me to say this year 59 but I feel so blessed to
be arriving at 60 knowing that I regret nothing. I know I have outlived my mother by 10 years,
as she lived till 75 but had her first stroke at 50 and stopped really living. She suffered for 25 years and left me a legacy to live her passion and not her suffering.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”  Marianne Williamson

How old do you truly feel? Do you feel like a goddess? Do you sometimes wake up feeling fat,
old and wrinkly? My advice to you is change mirrors. Some mirrors lie like google sometimes

I am valued just as I am, I speak my worth . I am cherished Myrrh

Wouldn't you like to be more happy, connected and empowered in your life?

It has been a year now since I discovered doterra essential oils and everyday this is deepening.
There is an oil for everything and their new emotional blends are to die for.
Motivate to promote feelings of confidence when working on a project.
Cheer to promote feelings of optimism.
Passion to connect you to your creativity
Forgive to help you to move on renew and start again
Console to help you with grief and sadness

now tell me you never feel these feelings. Imagine this beautiful natural plant delicious oil
by your side to help you in everyday life. Yum – how can you live without them.

“The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.” 
― Marianne Williamson

Doterra CPTG certified pure therapeutic grade essential oils represent the safest and most beneficial oils available in the world today. For an oil to be so pure they have to be
Pure and natural, free from fillers or artiifical ingredients, no dilution.
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Sourced by global network of oil chemists and gowers to grow in ideal environments and harvested at the right time.

Wouldn't you like to be more happy, connected and empowered in your life?

Most of us are living in our lower selves and in fear not love. This I call is our ego patterns and keep repeating the same stuff.This is not energising, empowering or helping our radiance and wisdom. This is not helping us to wake up in the morning in awe of another day. This is not helping us to be grateful for an incredible life. How much do you truly love yourself? Are
you still holding on to the martyr syndrome and taking care of everyone else? Do you feel exhausted, burnt out and tired. So many of my clients have shut down on life and this is taking
their life force.

My body functions at its greatest potential, I see myself clearly, I claim the brilliance of who I am

Are you living the hours of a yogi to feel energised and happy. These hours are early to bed and early to rise. Do you know yourself truly, what are your high energy times to get things done.
Do you have a connection with a higher power to ask for help when things don't go right.
What do you truly want for yourself in this life?
If you got that what would it give you?
What are you avoiding?

My inner strength is revealed in me. I feel expansive passion for life. I am renewed
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Most woman are going to get a reading to decide what to do with their lives. They trust the
psychic more than they trust their own knowing. If you don't wake up every day loving your
job, leave it. If you are sick of being there for everyone else stop and start self caring. If you
don't feel happy in your relationship – leave and start over. Stop lying to yourself – 90% of the lies are lies we tell ourselves. Get out of the illusion and get real. Life is too short to be repeating the
same shit different day.

If you want abundance in your life – start living from your higher self and connecting to a higher
power and create magic. Open up to receive if all you do is give. Ego is edging god out,
surrender is letting god or magic in. You chose.

I am alert and aware of all around me. I am focused, I recall information easily Peppermint

Learn from your parents mistakes. Realise that what you hated in them you are repeating in life
and stop the cycle before you pass it on to your own children. Take up a passion like salsa or tango and bring back the joy. Play with children and be childlike.

I am grounded – I am connected to my body. I have my feet planted firmly in my purpose Vertiver

Paru will be running goddess days throughout New Zealand to empower women to start over using doterra pure essential oils -email  and if you want to order these oils
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Relationship Coach - Couples Rekindling Retreat - 7th Feb 2016

Relationship Coach - Couples Rekindling Retreat


Do your love your partner but feel something is blocking this love?
Do you long to come back to when you first met and resparkle that intimacy?
Are you needing some clear, integral, honest relationship counselling suited only for you?
Are you sick and tired of the same old patterns in intimacy and willing to change and therefore deepen in your ability to love?
Are you wanting to leave the relationship in a conscious unconditional loving way that nurtures
both of you and your children?
Maybe you're going through menopause or mid life crisis & needing to get clear on your needs
at this time?
Which way do you deal with conflict in the relationship, fight, flight or freeze?


Then Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa is the place for you.

Here you will learn to love yourself so you can overflow with love for another This is
true unconditional love.

“ Self love is an ocean and your heart is a vessel. Make it full and any excess will spill over to the people you hold dear.  But you must come first"

No-one ever told us how to self care and be authentic.  But as my teacher said
"Society is the cult".

Imagine leaving the stresses of life behind and being nurtured and cared for in a gorgeous
ocean view setting and fed delicious food and not lifting a finger. Being seen and
listened to with non judgement and nourished body, mind and soul back to love.

We will be doing yoga and meditation daily, looking at ego patterns that keep repeating
in our lives and coming home to our hearts and our higher selves in between beautiful
body work sessions and ozone saunas drinking in the views.

Relationship Coach in New Zealand

Paru is deeply passionate about re-invigorating relationshps that have lost their spark.
She brings a fresh approach to nurturing intimacy between individuals that works
deeper than the mind. Taking you to a deep heart and soul connection, back to your
authentic self.  We cannot be in relationship while ego is running us. It works for a short
while (honeymoon) then eventually you crash and all the pain of the childhood wounds
come up when your partner is not meeting your needs.   Sound familiar!!!!!!!!!!!
Find your authentic self and love from there and you will rise in love instead of falling.

Paru has worked for 11 years with couples from all over the world and whether you
want to deepen the love or consciously uncouple – your unique needs are accommodated
in a one on one retreat basis.

Her background includes 30 years in development
  • Training with David Deida in Byron Bay
  • Full time accredited Journey Practitioner
  • Cranio-sacral and Aromatouch trained practitioner
  • Yoga teacher trained in India
  • Sexuality & Tantra counseller

Some people charge $2,000 per day for this coaching

5 days not $5,000 but $2,500 for 2 people

  • Journey work (cellular healing)
  • Ozone Saunas
  • Aromatherapy Massage and cranio sacral balancing
  • Yoga and Meditation daily
  • Delicious but healthy food cooked with love
  • Aromatherapy emotional reading for subconscious blocks
  • Decadent 3 course romantic dinner to finish (special food needs catered with love)

All set overlooking the ocean in gorgeous Diamond Harbour (the untouched paradise)
in Banks Peninsular with great coastal walks

Some Trip Advisor Comments from Couples
  • Blissfully Relaxing & Inspiring
  • Words cannot express - We are talking
  • A unique &  utterly unforgettable Retreat
  • Amazing couples retreat with a personal touch

Paru will soon be a celebrant to offer this work with entering into a commitment

Email to book your spot before  or call Paru 
03 3294773


On Holiday - Need for doterra essential oils - 1st Feb 2016

On Holiday  - Need for doterra essential oils

Best Essential Oils in New Zealand

Just returned from a gorgeous week up north and was so so happy to have taken my oils with me.

To start the journey driving 7hours north I put some peppermint in my drinking water and balance
on my feet to keep my emotions in bay. Peppermint can be cooling for anger and when it is very hot. Also deep blue rub to cool you down I cannot stress enough how amazing balance has been
to keep me grounded and emotions at bay (being a very high and low person). This oil is amazing.


On the way up there our fellow passenger had adult chickenpox so I dosed her up with On Guard
to build her immune and put some lavender on her skin. Go to the our latest facebook page
xfactor essential oils for wellness and if you have not asked to be joined let me know.
This will tell you the breakdown of this amazing blend and what it does for our immune. My
immune was always low and now with frankincense on the roof of the mouth every day my
immune rocks. Won't be picking up those viruses going around. What can we say about lavender – well stops itches, helps all skin issues and the amazing oil for relax and sleep.

On arrival in Nelson after the festival and with all the noise – Serenity helped me go off to a lovely

On Saturday at the festival a little boy had a fall and hurt his back so amazing I had brought the
deep blue rub so rubbed this in with the deep blue oil and in 10 mins he was up and running around.

Off to Abel Tasman and one of the children couldn't sleep so helped her with serenity and lavender.
Another little girl started to get scared after a movie and the beautiful console emotional oil calmed
her and lavender helped her sleep.

On the way back on the west coast was always getting eaten alive with sandflies so put on terrashield and was amazed that I wasn't hardly bitten.

On the return I couldn't understand what had happened with my knee when I got up for my walk (real pain deep into the bone) and so rubbed in the deep blue and gone then a friend was going through painful arthritis in the ankle so left him some deep blue.

It's been a year now and how did I ever survive without my oils. Life happens and we never
know what it is going to bring – so such a relief to know there is an oil for everything and this
is just the physical side. The emotional healing and balance of emotions that I feel are beyond

I simply love love love these oils and hopefully you can try them too

email to find out how you can get them or tel 03 3294773

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