The Hidden Key to Reducing Pain and Releasing Stress from the Body - 1st Feb 2020

The Hidden Key to Reducing Pain and Releasing Stress from the Body


Society is more mind based than ever. If the mind is full of fear, doubt and judgement -wouldn’t you like to know of another place to trust – this is your body. So many people now have lost touch with the wisdom of the body and this is where you can be empowered to truly be your authentic self.

My story with my body started with an eating disorder. No it wasn’t bulimia or anorexia (I loved food too much for that) – it was yo yo dieting and using food for love. When myparents split at 13 I rose  to nearly 100 kilos and really hated myself. When I got my mum back emotionally, when she was truly there for me, I was able to lose a lot of weight but never did deal with the issues under it so had many problems eating normally. Thank god I was in Byron Bay and went to an ashram in India and through dance and in the 90’s was colour puncture, I went back to childhood hatred of the body and then I could eat normally. It was like coming off a cocaine addiction – so hence my love of the wisdom of the body began. I studied craniosacral balancing in India cause it brought me to a relaxation I had never experienced and from there could release cellular memory out of the body.

30 years on and 15 years working with people’s bodies at Shunyata – I can truly vouch for this listening and wisdom that is kept inside the fascia – which is the matrix under the skin and around the muscles and organs. It is the sheath of the body, it is where we hold our chi – our life force and where so much pain can be released. It was first discovered in the 60’s and validated by the medical profession in 2007. It has also the lymph nodes inside where our garbage and toxicity is disposed of in the body. Craniosacral balancing and doterra pure essential oils, combined with reflexology used here at Shunyata has been miracle release of pain and emotional holding. Combine that with the enneagram (Patterns of unconcious behaviour that govern how we feel our emotions) – The Journey Method – a guided meditation to take you back to childhood or life trauma and miracle after miracle is happening.

We have 5 Energy Centres in the body which give us our power and when these are compromised in any way, pain can appear and general lack of life force with this holding. Craniosacral releases these energy centres to give the body back it’s energy and lifeforce.

1. Pelvic floor -the seat of the body, the tail and seat bones – releasing this we get back our power.

2. Gut – so much is said about the gut brain relationship these days and how important this is.

3. Diaphram & Lungs – it’s our metabolism, our personal power centre and with deep breathing so much can happen including losing weight.

4. Heart and Shoulders – this is where we carry our hurts and I call it the heart shaped wall. It’s an armour and it is our way to give and receive love so when we are shut down we are using our lifeforce and opening this can truly bring us back to life.

5. Head Neck and Jaw – Here we release the cerebral spinal fluid from the sutras (the bones in the head) to have a flow of energy up and down the spine.

Retreat NZ

When we start to get back in touch with this body wisdom – we get truth and knowing that is real from the body. I have watched the emotional relationship with pain in the body and when addressed from the enneagram patterns and the craniosacral balancing brings people to the stillness to listen to their bodies, coupled with the most highest frequency essential oils from doterra, lifetimes of pain have been disappearing. We look at illnesses and see the body mind connection – the mind quietens and wisdom and empowerment appear for the clients.  The best healing is when you are empowered to listen to your body.

If we truly started to listen to the body so much we would gain from the wisdom and truth.


  • Listening AND following what your body is communicating

  • Honoring the wisdom in your cells vs. discounting your body’s voice and objectifying yourself

  • Relating to your body in a kind way vs. allowing inner critic to lead

  • Nourishing yourself well through daily needs (food, water, rest, quiet space, activity, connection, etc.)

  • Trusting your body wisdom to guide your decisions with different people, places, and circumstances

  • Valuing your inside voice first before the authoritative, acculturated outside voice

  • owning your authority– being your own authority by living from that inner truth that’s beyond the rational mind

  • knowing how to presence yourself– feelings/ sensations–and knowing how to centre, breathe fully, and open your body regardless of who you are around or where you are

  • allowing and enjoying positive and pleasurable sensations to circulate through you vs. holding back or tightening your breath as soon as you feel really good

Get out of this crazy world of the mind for 2020 and start a new millenium with intelligence. Come and experience SHUNYATA – means quiet mind and get in touch with your body’s wisdom – either for a day ULTIMATE HEALING DAY, or 3 DAYS EMOTIONAL HEALING or 5 DAYS DETOX & EMOTIONAL HEALING – mention this article and get your own special aromatherapy blend and bring a friend before 31 Mar and save $100 per person off retreats.

The body is the greatest mystery in the whole of existence. This mystery needs to be loved – it’s mysteries and it’s functionings need to be inquired into.   OSHO or tel 0272 777734 or email

Feminine Power for Manifestation - 29th Jan 2020

Feminine Power for Manifestation

How to Unlock this Huge Power Within

Have you had a deep longing in your heart to live a more authentic, effortless,purposeful life following your passions and living the life of your dreams in your work, your love life and your health?

Are you going to live the legacy of your mother which she could not live  or follow in her unconcious behaviours?

The way of the old paradym doesn’t work anymore. Women competing with men, the corporate world is full of it – the new way is the way of the feminine. The energy of the feminine is truly the way of the future and has a power so much bigger than anything you have ever experienced. She is the ocean - so vast.

We each have masculine and feminine power within us but if we are a woman our rightful core is feminine and owing to upbringing and patterns of unconcious behaviour, the enneagram (ego patterns)we have blocked this power within and it is time to reclaim it for manifesting the life of our dreams in our work, our love life and our health.

Ok sisters, what is it you truly want?
If you got that what would it give you?
What are you avoiding?

Really go deep into this question – the first step is to be clear.

Maybe it’s authentic confidence
maybe to be a loving relationship that supports growth
to be accepted for who you truly are
to live a prosperous life within your values so you can give back to what you
truly believe in
to express your creativity
to have abundant energy, vitality and health
to do the work that supports your deepest passions in life
To experience true freedom
to really access the yearning from the heart that has been covered over

It’s yours for the taking but we have to do some work first. We have to clear the blocks that are stopping you truly living this life of your dreams. This is
not airy fairy stuff, it's getting down to the roots of these blocks, it takes courage, perseverance and inspired action.

The qualities of the feminine are

1. Trust
2. Receptivity
3. Patience
4. Being
5. Surrender

How many of these are you living sisters? It’s not about being pretty, being sweet,about how feminine you dress cause she has all energies. She is Kali, the destructor who will kill for love, she is the angelic angel, she is shakti dancing but she shows up in all forms.  She is strong but soft.

We, as women, have become very masculinised. What does this mean ? Success is being revered and we are in the mode of doing all the time.We have become too busy in life and have no time to slow down and self nurture.
Your sexual energy, if alive,  it is your life force, your kundalini your health and vitality. When we are in the doing mode all the time, this gets blocked. There is a true power deep within that can manifest anything. This consciousness, this presence is manifestation on steroids and it’s time to reclaim it for ourselves.

So what story are you telling yourself?

I feel alone, I’m not enough, I’m too much, I’m not wanted,I'm too fat, I have nothing to give.

The qualities of the feminine are needed back into our lives and bodies for us to truly radiate as light and feminine beings.A beautiful woman who is rested, feels pleasure in her body, has a balance in life of work and pleasure can radiate light to the world and heal the world with her love and heart. So what is stopping you living this juicy feminine in your life?

If you’re like most conscious, smart women, you don’t want to just achieve success… you want to realize your highest destiny.

Imagine A future where:

  • Your unique gifts are unleashed and impacting others…

  • You have greater prosperity and purpose in your career…

  • Your relationships are deeply intimate, loving and supportive…

  • You’re connected to a higher power and feel energized and radically alive every day…

2020 is the year of feminine energy and Paru will be hosting workshops that help you
reclaim your power for effortless non doing and living the life of unconditional love
email to claim your place

This is for goddesses who:a

Are  sick of being in the corporate world which is not always aligned with your true values and not living in truth?

 Long to be part of something that is truly working with oneness & connection?

Who want to know the true laws of manifestation and how it works so you can live an easy effortless life, work smarter not harder?

Who want to work for home and do the work that serves your purpose and your passion?

Who want to make a difference in this world that sometimes feels like it’s going backwards but be part of an evolution of consciousness that is going forwards?
Who want to be empowered to take charge of their health naturally with plant based medicine?

Who want to know the true secret of abundance and manifestation how to connect to it beyond The Secret?

Who want to know the want true happiness beyond mind games?


“If there ever comes a time when the women of the world come together purely and simply for the benefit of mankind, it will be a force such as the world has never known.”
― Matthew Arnold

Register your place for these amazing days as space will be limited
by emailing  and following will be a 
mastermind on living feminine power in your daily lives group

Why I love Couples Retreats & Why You Should Do One - 8th Dec 2019

Why I love Couples Retreats & Why You Should Do One

1. First of all – I have done a masters on the world love and  left the lower part of romantic love and come to the service of bringing couples to a higher loving and this is my life's passion.

2. 2019 has been a shit year for myself and so many people – where we have had to look at what doesn't serve anymore - but if this work is done , then 2020 will be amazing.

3. If your relationship is not working – then life is not working

4. In 15 years 3 couples have gone on to be great friends in life, only 2 couples didn’t make it – one consicously uncoupled and the other one – split cause one didn't want to do the work.

5. I don’t help you to please the other (which never lasts) and don't counsel from the mind,  but help you individually to come to a place of wholeness and from this place you can truly meet the other.

6. Most men – who have the courage to come – get sometimes more out of it than the women

7.  By the time you finish with the 3 course romantic dinner, you would have done a lifetime of work that allows you to live more from your higher self and now the fun starts.

8.  Christchurch is buzzing and  if you do the 5 day you will have time to visit the amazing
city, do some day trips to Akaroa or Castle Hill and visit our beautiful volcanic beaches - 10 mins away.

9.  So to start your year off in style - all bookings made and deposited before 31 January will get a his and her’s PURFUME blend made by paru with pure essential oils – you can’t go back to chemicals again

review from recent couple

Can’t stop referring Shunyata
We didn’t know what to expect but knew we needed something. We signed up for a 5 night couples retreat. We arrived with open minds and ready for anything.
We found Paru amazing, so tentative, we weren’t to lift a finger. The meals she prepared were amazing and has awoken our love of good healthy food, as for the romantic dinner on out last night, wow! Just beautiful and soo delicious❤️ Not to forget the surprise entertainment Shunyata is based in Paru’s home with a gorgeous view and we were made to feel welcome and at home.
Although our time at Shunyata had rough guidelines, Paru was soo accommodating to change as to where we were atand what we wanted.The emotional healing that we both did individually was pretty mind blowing.
As a couples retreat, we didn’t do any work or counselling together it was all individual journeys they we shared with each other later that day.It allowed us to see where patterns were formed and why, and as a result we have a greater understanding and more appreciative of each other ❤️❤️
We thank you Paru for your retreat and can honestly say that this retreat saved our marriage and has taken our relationship to a deeper level
Date of stay: November 2019Trip type: Travelled as a couple

book your place anytime now in 2020 by email

or txt or tel 0272 777734

Illness - Listen to Diagnosis but not to Prognosis - 7th Dec 2019

Illness - Listen to Diagnosis but not to Prognosis

Don't Give Up Hope - Your Body is a Miracle

Our body’s natural state is homeostasis – balance.
Our emotional natural state is causeless joy

Many years ago when I was in a deep state of suffering after losing custody of my child and was listening to a healer at an ashram in India,  I had this amazing knowing inside that anything can be healed, and 30 years later after working at Shunyata I can truly say I have witnessed the truth of this statement.

There are 3 levels of genes – first is DNA , second is your microbiome – the bacteria that live within you. The third level is the epigenome – a sheath of protein surrounding the DNA that regulates the activity of your genes. All play an important part in health.

So, if only 5% of gene mutations (error in the genes) cannot be healed (like Angelina Jolly's breast cancer) then all cancers, autoimmune diseases, heart disease and inflammation problems in the body are formed by our experience of life and how we interpret our experiences in life. That leaves 95% of illnesses can be healed as per Dr Deepak Chopra . Dr Gabor Matte, another known expert in body, mind soul balance says "most illnesses are formed by childhood trauma, unmet anger, sadness and grief.

Empowerment Healing Retreat New Zealand

Our lifestyles, the daily choices we make along with sleep, how much we move, how nutiritious our diets are – all have an incredible influence over how the genes express themselves. If we change our conditioning, our conditioned mind (the enneagram), our belief patterns and how we experience our emotions – we can heal.

There is hope !
How much are you willing to use this as a wake up call?
How much are you worth fighting for?
So you’ve been told you have cancer or an autoimmune issue and how do you feel?
So many people give up there and believe the medical prognosis.
Listen to the diagnosis and maybe get a few opinions, but if you truly believe in the power of the body, don’t listen to the doctor’s prognosis – you have 3 months to live or you have to live with this for your whole life.  So many people give up here. This is a very powerful time in your life to wake up, to truly go in and to find out the truth of who you truly are and heal on a body, mind and soul level.

So you Have been Diagnosed with Cancer - The Truth About Cancer

How we are brought up with love or fear creates our conditioning. Our early childhood experiences have a great deal to do with why our body is out of balance. Our patterns of unconcious behavior usually are formed around 3 years old (the enneagram) then we collect series of beliefs ,which are truly cover ups for insecurity, from our upbringing. These create unconcious thoughts which can lead to disease, dis – ease in the body – away from wholeness.

To keep healthy we need

1.Good deep sleep
2. Meditation for stress management – questioning beliefs, body awareness, awareness of emotions and thoughts. The importance of dealing with stress which comes most from your unconcious behaviours (enneagram) 
3. Movement with consciousness – yoga is the best for this and for grounding
4. Breathing with presence - the breath is so important for anxiety & fear
5. Healthy emotions such as love, joy, compassion & equanimity (feeling at one with universe)
and breaking unhealthy emotions by feeling them totally -The Journey Method
like guilt, shame, resentment, anger and hostility. So they no longer run us. Some of these we don’t feel comfortable in feeling so they stay in our consciousness and therefore add to the disease. 
6. Of course the diet we eat, plant based, alkaline, free of preservatives cutting out sugars, eating according to our body type - ayurveda
7.  The power of forgiveness and also gratefulness.

The other thing that is important to look at – is how we deal with pain.As Rumi said - The core of pain – is in the pain. A natural human response is to be angry with our bodies instead of going inside and truly listening with compassion  - then the pain can disappear. 

80% of Illnesses are Emotionally Related

Then there is emotional pain which brings suffering and this is caused by Not knowing who you are, grasping to things that are not permanent. Fear of impermanence, identifying self with ego and fear of death.

We need to look into the hurts and hatred you are holding, where you are being insensitive, your craving to be loved and to love, your inauthenticity (where you have been lying to yourself either in illusion or denial), your judgemental nature, your ingratitude and your story telling by the mind to bring you to true happiness, causeless joy.

The Journey Method & The Enneagram NZ

Most of our physical and emotional suffering comes from unconcious behaviours and at Shunyata we empower you to take this journey inside. To look at these patterns and deal with the childhood trauma on a cellular level, the unmet emotions and the understanding of why you avoid them.Ultimate healing brings you back to wholeness, to your creativity, to your essence or your higher self. We need to reconnect to hope, to prayer to a higher power and get to the truth of our soul. Our path is now a spiritual path of truth, oneness, self discovery and conscience which leads to power. Prayer will bring you home, it will make the impersonal intimate. As we heal ourselves, we heal the whole.As we start to listen to our inner voice we are no longer concerned about what people think of us. We let go of the pleaser, the helper & caretaker and we fall in love with our souls and connect to our power, our creativity, our essence our higher self. We become the climate change inside and go on to touch other people so the whole world can heal.

A client said the other day - Why didn't I know about this earlier?  Why did it take a suicide attempt to wake me up?  Who know's but I truly believe in timing.

Alternative Healing Therapies NZ

Paru works with The Journey Method, The Enneagram, Doterra high vibrancy essential oils and protocols for illness- Symphony of the cells balancing the body physically, emotionally & spiritually with high vibrancy oils,  yoga, meditation, craniosacral balancing (to get in touch with the body’s wisdom and truth) and ayurveda (the most ancient form of body mind soul balance). The true healing happens when you are empowered  when  you are a participant in your own healing.  

You are in charge of your own body and it is truly a miracle - if you have chosen this natural route and this speaks to you  and gives you the hope you need
call or text Paru now 0272 777734 or email to
book your life claiming life changing retreat

The Enneagram Retreat New Zealand - Shadow Work - 3rd Dec 2019

The Enneagram Retreat New Zealand - Shadow Work Importance of the Enneagram in Relationships, Health & Wellness and Shadow Work

Ken Wilber recently referred to Shadow work - which is the work of unconcious behaviour.
Shadow Work is how you integrate the aspects of your unconscious psyche into your conscious experience and allow the positive aspects of the shadow to express themselves. When properly used and channeled, the shadow-self has traits that you can use to further your own personal development.
Many people on the spiritual path never address this part which is so important for true growth to take place.

Have you ever asked yourself the quintessential classic human question of identity, “Who am I?” Most of us spend a lifetime trying to figure out who we are and how we relate to others and the world in general.

Unfortunately, in the process of forming an identity, we succumb to building up lies and illusions around our sense of self that only lead us further away from who we truly are. The Enneagram offers a bright path to cutting through the internal clutter and to finding our way back to who we are created to be. It is
the best work you can do in mindfulness & awareness to be present.

Based on the nine classic archetypes of human character structure, the Enneagram exposes the nine ways we lie to ourselves about who we think we are, illustrates the nine ways we get lost, and reveals nine ways we find our way home to our True Self and to God. It explains the “why” of how we think, act, and feel, it helps us come to terms with our gifts and with the patterns that bind us to our greatest challenges.

What can the Enneagram do for me?
Many find the Enneagram takes self-awareness deeper than other profiles and assessments. The Enneagram reveals our best, truest self with its potential to heal a world in need. And as a tool for awareness, the Enneagram illuminates a path to developing our identity and spirituality.

Presence and gratefulness comes from an open heart and a present body and a clear conscise mind - your enneagram type at it's best.

The enneagram tells us what we do when we are not mindful.It’s a reminder to come back to self. You are not a type – it’s a form that our consciousness takes. It is the designed for  people interested in being awake and conscious and living the best part of themselves.The enneagram has to do with presence, being and loving the moment and the capacities we have living in the moment. It gives us the answers to why we don’t live in the moment.
Our greatest gifts are our qualities that come forward.  Paru calls it growing
up instead of growing old.

We are either in the body, heart or mind centre.
8/9/1 Embodiment
2/3/4 Heart Centred
5/6/7 Mind Centred

Here is a quick test freee of charge
The body centre has rigidity, stubborness and show us when we are not present in our body. When we reinhabit our body,we get a sensation and this is intelligence of the body. We feel in the body.

Heart centre or an emotional type can feel a shutdown, numbing out – we can feel distance from emotions. Or are Emotionally touchy, when buttons are pushed. We are in stories and need to come back to our heart where we feel this oneness and connection, kindness and patience.

Head centre can feel dull – I’ve abandoned me and proud of it – too much in the mind. When we come home to our head we are crisp, clear and present, attentive and quiet.

The Journey Method NZ

Paru works with these unconcious patterns to help you enter The Journey
method - an amazing guided meditation that takes you back to a memory
(usually childhood) when this first started or a trauma that stopped you moving
forward to your essence - your higher self.

After being a workshop junkie and studying with top leaders, teachers and  avatars in the field of awakening for the last 30 years - she believes
this is the best therapy for getting to the core of trauma, illness and unhealthy
behaviours.After observing people for 15 years at Shunyata - many blocks and illnesses address these patterns and The Journey brings people back home to their true selves.
Journeyessence means come home to your best self.

So don't delay - book either a one day
Ultimate Healing Day
a 3 or 5 day Couples Counselling retreat
or 3 days emotional retreat or
5 days detox and emotional retreat



The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Healing - 15th Nov 2019

The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Healing

Emotional Intelligence Leads to Deep Healing

If you are in touch with what is happening on the planet - November is the month that all our old patterns are resurfacing, our shadow side (our lower self) is coming up to be dealt with - no better time to be doing this work -
reconnecting to our higher self where we are truly aligned.

1. Heal the physical body

The body is the gateway to the soul and the mind and the ego are full of fear doubt and judgement. Most people are living in this space of the ego/mind and this is where all the problems are. So getting in touch and listening to the body is a crucial part of getting in touch with emotions. Because the body never lies – it speaks the truth. Have you heard of that gut feeling and when we don’t listen to it – well there is many of those gut feelings showing through and if we don’t listen to them then we can end up with physical illness so we can truly listen. In the enneagram/journey work that we do here in Shunyata, we establish your pattern of ego/mind disruption that is causing you your breakdown, your physical illness, your block or whatever is happening and then we go back to maybe a time in your childhood where this was formed, and with a memory we come to a forgiveness process (not from the mind but from the soul) and then that issue is dealt with from a cellular level. We should be taught at school – true emotional intelligence, How it is to be with your emotions and feel them totally and then they disolve, but we use every strategy to avoid them, eating them down, drinking them down, running from them etc. If 80% of our illnesses are emotionally related , especially us emotional types,wouldn’t it make sense to get this sorted.

2. Heal the Heart and the Soul

Well this is what happens after a journey process. Our heart’s have been shut down from hurts, I call this the heart shaped wall. We are living in a constant state of shutdown that is taking our lifeforce and doesn’t allow us to be our true selves. You know that feeling and of course you remember that feeling when it was to be truly open. Think of a child, who has none of these walls, how innocent, alive and spontaneous they are. You too can have this back inside of you and then live more from your true self, the heart and the soul. This is your essence and your birthright.

3. Release Limiting Belief Systems

With life knocks we develop limiting beliefs and from childhood we carry these even back to the womb where we absorb our parents. We then hold on to these beliefs and they stop all other possibilities. Another disempowering one is vows, vow’s have a lifeforce of their own and they shut down all possibilities and have noticed this in the 15 years of doing this work. It’s why when you make a vow in marriage – it’s hard to break. We need to uncover these and reword them into healthy beliefs and vows in the cells. The good news is we can change these, they may have served us in the past but for true freedom they are holding us back.

4. Increase Spiritual Awareness & Connection

Consciousness, awareness and a connection with a higher power is needed on the journey. Consciousness heals, consciousness is manifestation on steroids, consciousness is effortless – it comes when you have become aware of all the beliefs, vows, enneagram and ego patterns (unconcious behaviours). It comes when we stop being the pleaser, the helper, the unique one, the strong one by being aware of these patterns. We then awaken our spiritual connection with the higher power. We can’t do this alone, we need help – so drop the pride and reach out.

5. Inspire the Fulfillment of your Life’s Purpose

We all have a reason to be here. This why, this purpose is our life’s mission. When we truly are in service to something bigger, to our passions, to what makes us on fire – we are living our purpose. My purpose is to live the highest version of unconditional love in this lifetime and to inspire people to truly know their true selves. Their true selves is their essence, their soul – their higher self and my deepest prayer is everyone gets to know this in this lifetime – cause this is true fulfillment, this is true love, this is true wonder and beauty and everything. When we touch this part of you in the Journey – I feel such a gratefulness, I bring in the gorgeous sugar free wild orange fudge, and know my work and my life has a meaning.

What it means to live from the Higher Self - Conscious Being
You are at peace
You cannot be shaken from your centre
You have self knowledge
You empathize without judgement
You see yourself as part of the whole
You are not in the world. The world is in you
Your actions spontaneously benefit you
Your desires manifest easily, without friction or struggle
You can perform intense action with detachment
You are not personally invested in any outcome
You know how to surrender
The reality of God is visible everywhere
The best possible time is in the present

It's great to talk about this, but to really feel this has been my life's path.
You too can have this awakening.

At Shunyata we use the high vibrancy of doterra essential oils to help with this healing. Some people have blocked deeply their hurts on their heart, so easy air helps to bring them up. Some people are buried in a deep grief and sadness, so console helps them to let it out. Some people have buried anger and it’s stuck in the gut which can cause all types of gut problems. Some people have completely numbIed all emotion and don’t know who they are.The enneagram with the essential oils, helps to know the particular strategy and for 15 years Paru has been refining this.What I notice is that it comes to a time in life where these patterns of unconcious behaviour are not working anymore – so people either end up in a breakdown, an illness or something of a wake up call and then they come. But why wait till then, I watched my mother suffer for 25 years with stroke – I don’t want to waste this life – do you?

You can come for a day on an Ultimate Healing Day, 3 Days on Ultimate Bliss retreat or a 5 day detox, body mind and soul.

Go to or email

or tel 03 3294773 or 0272 777734









The Importance of Preventative Medicine - 12th Jun 2019

The Importance of Preventative Medicine

How to Avoid Cancers and Many Illnesses

Just had news of 2 deaths of parents and a client die of cancer. My heart breaks for the people left and the determination to give up myself and my little problems and get educating people more how to love the body, understand it’s functionings and listen to it, connect with the soul, let go of the mind, learn to eat healthily per your ayurveda type learn how to grieve and to how to embrace death. This is all since my wake up call and watching my mother suffer for 25 years with stroke.

It makes me go back to my blog about the truth about cancer and add to it I am not going to tell you I know all, but in the 15 years of observing and being passionate about teachings and observing clients, I have learnt a lot.

The Truth About Cancer


  1. 48% of cancers are environmental and only 5% -10% are genetic – get your home chemical free and what you put on your skin

  2. Let food be thy medicine – alkaline, address ayurvedic type, cut out sugar and add more greens and cut down on red meat

  3. Detox- liver or colon – doterra does an amazing cleanse & restore that cleared my candida

  4. heal emotional wounds – 80% of illnesses are emotionally related – main cause of illnesses

    are childhood trauma, unmet sadness, grief and anger – all addressed with the journey and

    the eneagram (unconcious behaviour patterns) – get emotionally intelligent & forgive

  5. Bring in plant matter with doterra high vibrancy pure essential oils - frankincense & DDR prime and Lifelong vitality a must and then other ones according to the cancer

  6. I will add some other tips beyond that blog, take time to be – meditation and learn to be present out of the mind, fall in love with the body with yoga – to truly listen, do some craniosacral balancing sessions with doterra cbd oil -copaiba to truly listen, meet your inner child and develop relationship, go back to anyone in your life who you haven’t forgiven and come to a true soul forgiveness, take stress out of your life (so easy when you understand enneagram type which creates stress), develop a relationship around death so you can surender and not fight, discover your soul, your essence your true self and stay true to it,find a way to take away money worries so you can truly concentrate on you – abundance is needed when you are ill. Sell what you need to and stop working.Make you as a no. 1 priority and understand through the enneagram what patterns have run you and caused this cancer. So many things are attributable to being ill so I have just covered some of what I have learnt, surround yourself that believe, that trust that have beaten 4th stage cancer and know that it is possible for you

For the people who are left, believe me as per many people who have had near death experiences, the light they go to is amazing. They don’t want you to suffer, they want you to learn from them and go live totally. If you have done the soul’s work in this lifetime, your transition is smooth and you go straight to the light, so don’t stop waking up and discovering your true self. Use these beautiful beings as your teachers, go do what they didn’t do and live for them and then you are doing yourself and them a huge service.


The True Secret on How to Live Pain Free Naturally - 9th Jun 2019

The True Secret on How to Live Pain Free Naturally

My deepest wound in teenage years was my eating disorder. I had no idea at the time that I could trace it back now to the tragedy of my parent’s divorce – I took to food as the feelings were overwhelming – I could never purge or stop eating, I loved food too much so I just ate and ate to keep the feelings of abandonment, sadness and separation down.

Fast forward a few years with my wake up call around 30 – losing custody of my child and I had to go in and do the work. It was amazing to go back and truly face the hate I had for my body, turn it up and finally feel free – was like coming off a cocaine addiction – I didn’t need to continue this yo yo of stuffing my face and dieting. I used colour puncture, and then went on to find dance therapy and yoga to fall totally in love with this amazing body of mine.

This began my incredible journey into the magic of healing the body and the soul. Luckily was living in Byron Bay at the time, the mega for this work and became the workshop junkie . Tried everything you can imagine,
including the most revered work I do today 30 years later which I studied in India - Craniosacral Balancing.  I picked the most profound and came home to put it into my retreat 15 years ago and Shunyata was formed. So researching people, watching bodies, working on bodies and updating myself solidly by overseas jaunts – I can truly pass on what I have learnt about

the wisdom of this incredible body.

Next chapter, 5 years ago, after asking what is stopping me waking up – I  came down with candida. Not an easy journey for a foodie, so enter Doterra Pure High Vibrancy Essential oils – took the symptoms away with wild orange and got real with eating and with the Cleanse and Restore and a few other things – became Candida free. My lesson here was physical pain and suffering, and having compassion  for people who had to live in pain permanently, as it wasn’t my issue in the past – most of my learnings were emotional.

The mind is full of fear, doubt and judgement, the body knows, it just wants to be listened to deeply and compassionately and this can lead us to soul’s advancement which is cellular and true.

How in touch are you with your body?
How empowered do you feel when you get sick to heal or do you go to the medical profession?

Don’t get me wrong – there is a place for the medical profession, they can repair bones and so many things – but so much can be dealt with by you truly listening. Your body is a miracle – this quote by Osho

The body is the greatest mystery in the whole of existence. This mystery needs to be loved – it’s mysteries and it’s functionings need to be inquired into.   OSHO

How do we do that? Well at Shunyata you will discover your enneagram type – either emotional, body or mind type – then we will address your relationship with your body and after doing the Journey process with the doterra high vibrancy oils that help you emotionally, you will see the wisdom that is shared, then we do a craniosacral session with these incredible  oils (even have one that works like medical marijuana) , Copaiba with the high content on cannabinoid but totally natural, that will address the issues, and listen more deeply to it’s functionings. The miracle of the plant knows, is done with an emotional aromatherapy energy session what is going on in the subconcious. Miracles can happen.

Yesterday -  got a call from a client who couldn't walk on her foot.  She was about to spend a lot of money
on special shoes, but we went into the foot, listened deeply with the oils, and did this a few times, she has
never had this pain back again.  It happens so often and my deepest prayer is no-one has to live with
permanent pain in their body, it can be cleared naturally.

Knees that are going to be operated on with yoga exercises is another amazing shift. Phobia cures of all sorts lifted for good with NLP. Pain in body that has been there for years – finally put to rest and things that you never thought could be addressed – uniquely dealt with depending on your enneagram type, the right oil on the right place and the compassionate listening and your longing for closure. Healing takes 2 – I can’t heal you alone, but if you and I work together we can create miracles.

So the cheapest, most empowering journey you can ever take is home to the wisdom of your body and this will save you thousands in later years.  You wake up with you every day - your body is worth listening to as it
speaks wisdom and truth.

Come to Shunyata and learn the true wisdom of this incredible body and soul and take it to help others, come for a day, or 3 days and learn emotionally and physically this tool to have for life.
or or 0272 777734




Call Us

03 329 4773

027 277 7734

site powered by - Turboweb :: Simple Web Manager