Couples Counselling in NZ Retreat Format - 9th Jan 2019

Couples Counselling in NZ Retreat Format

Couples counselling/Relationship coach

Have you just got married and want to start this relationship healthily with freedom and unconditional love?
Has your relationship lost it's spark?
Have you shutdown on each other and feel a deadness?
Have you got mistrust and jealousy issues affecting your relationship?
Are you carrying hurts that cannot allow your heart to flower?
Are you being really honest with yourself and your partner in this relationship?
Have you lost intimacy?
Have you dreamed of living a more tantric  and conscious relationship?
Do you dream of finding the love and passion again?
Are you sick and tired of the same stuff coming up relationship after relationship?

Imagine time out for the 2 of you, catching up, eating beautiful prepared food looking
out over the ocean, reaching a depth of intimacy that you never imagined.  Imagine not
carrying those hurts anymore and being truly open and honest with each other.  Imagine
speaking to each other, My beloved I feel your fear........ Sitting together in a 3 course romantic dinner in sheer bliss, then after laughing together from an amazing video on true love,
retiring into the gorgeous hydrotherpy bath.  Your relationship deserves this..........

conscious relationship is a romantic liaison where both people feel dedicated to a sense of commitment towards growth.Most relationships are run from unconcious patterns, based on romantic pursuits, full of fear and seeking to please the other and asking the other unconciously to provide happiness.  The normal scenario when the honeymoon is over and the relationship goes downhill. When you become concious you become aware of habitual, addictive, thinking and ego patterning  and make a decision  to take responsibility and not blame the other.

Did you love Married at First Sight, would you love to understand your pattern of why you sabotage relationshipsm - the enneagram work addresses this.

Life's stresses of making money, raising your children kills chemistry between couples. Everyone is living in the masculine domain of life of achievement  and no wonder relationships are failing.  Come and find out what the true secrets are for being sexy for your man or woman on a deeper and more sustaining level


Relationships can break down  when the men will leave from fear but won't admit their fear and the woman will stay longing for something to change but is too scared to leave the relationship because she is addicted to love even if it's an untrue love.  Hence no-one is serving the other to rise in love and not fall.  There is so much more beyond the romantic love and at Shunyata we help you discover this.

Imagine a relationship where in her open heart and his consiciousness  all her jealousy, anger, pain, hurt and sadness get burnt  and a woman brings him present by cultivating his masculine not emasculating him with her incredible intuition and energy and feeling pleasure. Imagine him living his true masculine force, being present, trustable and in truth and her living her powerful feminine force with an open heart, showing him when is off and opening in pure devotion when he is on.   When  these two energies meet, you get a real sense of shiva and shakti dancing and the world truly needs this love.

This is my deepest prayer for all to live this higher love and if you truly want to stop the old patterning - it is available to you right now.  

 Best Relationship Counselling in New Zealand

You know you want to work it out so you've come to the right place otherwise you'll just carry
the baggage to the next relationship.  Give your relationship that break to truly come home
and start a new way of loving.


Spend a romantic weekend getaway or a more deeper 5 days that you will never forget!  When it comes to a couples retreat Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa will guarantee a true heart opening. Shunyata Retreat and Day Spa is the place to come and be nurtured in a safe, healing and neutral environment. The work is first done on your own with The Journey and enneagram (ego patterns) and then when you have resolved your own patterns individually we then counsel from this place.

We have recently added some amazing doterra  blends of oils and of course pure cacao chocolates that will send you wild.  So it's decadence, delightful and delicious to
open in this love - The 3 course romantic dinner usually is the highlight of the retreat served
on the deck overlooking the ocean.


Paru first of all studied with David Deida and his partner, acknowledged as one of the most insightful and provocative spiritual teachers of our time in the area of sacred intimacy. She has done many workshops on tantra and sexual healing  She has over 15 years of healing sexual blocks with cranio sacral and  she is deeply passionate in bringing couples to a place of deeper, unconditional love in relationship.


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