Both Men and Women are looking for a deeper Intimacy - Spiritual & Heart Opening - 28th Mar 2014

Both Men and Women are looking for a deeper Intimacy - Spiritual & Heart Opening

Rising or Falling in Love – Living totally or living a ½ life

How many of you are living relationships that have died and lost their spark?
How many of you started out so in love and then it all went downhill?
How many of you love your partner but just live as friends and have no passion left?
How many of you feel you are living a ½ life – for the other and not for yourself and it's not working?
How many of you are shut down and don't even realise that it is this that is taking your life force?

Do you still love your partner? Then keep reading – there is hope – every moment is a new chance to start over.

Many of us are always asking many questions about love. What went wrong, why can I not live an open, passionate and alive love life and still be true to myself. For each of us there is an unique reason. We are not all the same but most of us are living from a pattern that we can't sustain and it's just not working.

How can we be in love and still be true to ourselves. Well my experience is moving beyond ego
patterns of loving with the enneagram. Most of us are either living conditions on our loving or pleasing the other and it works for a while but when the honeymoon is over, this cannot be kept up.
This – living from the ego patterns, is exhausting, it takes so much effort. To be yourself is effortless. To who know you truly are, have you ever asked yourself this question – who am I really? You have to know who you are and who you are not.
Have a look at this video from Brandon Bays from the journey to explain the ego patterns.

How is this playing out in your relationships?
Most important are you sick of doing the same old thing and want to change these patterns and
come home to who you truly are, pure love, effortless being, peace itself.

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Kahlil Gibran

My deepest prayer in this lifetime is to help people live from a more authentic loving.
To rise in love instead of falling. To not wait until you die when you have truth in your
eyes but to long for this higher loving and to start living from it now.

When people come to Shunyata we look at their ego patterns individually and then see
if this is causing the friction between them. Then we meet and do some sharing in truth,
where sometimes this can be very confrontational but it is done from love not judgement.
Men are blown away because they have never been taught to talk about feelings. We are
then meeting from our higher selves not our minds and our egos that will never come to
clarity. More men are coming to my site and yet most women are booking. Why is this?
I believe that men are full of fear and yet society says they shouldn't feel it. What we resist
persists. The men who have come have been so grateful to open to their heart and not be
judged. Most women in the relationship want to do this retreat because love is the most
important thing – it's our purpose. This is not a man's purpose but he wants to make her happy.
How can you both be served. Men come and find out your life purpose, come discover who
you truly are and live from a place beyond fear. Hear what it is from a man in mens language
with the work from David Deida.

“He who seeks ecstasy in love should not complain of suffering.” 
― Kahlil Gibran, Visions of the Prophet

Men and women are looking for the same things in relationship; intimacy that transcends the body, penetrates the spirit and opens the heart.

To truly love another you have to have that love for self and then follow the principles of

Love,Kindness,Joy, Compassion,Empathy,Equanimity

Find the love inside of yourself and then you can share – allowing the other to be who they are?
In this case who they truly are – not their ego patterns. Then we can all rise in love and serve the planet in this love.

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